and then i met lillian ross, and it is a story in the book. >> rose: just give me the punch line. >> and asked what actually happened. >> rose: and you realized your mother told the truth. >> i think she did, yes, or a pretty good version of it, which is all you can ask for. >> rose: what of your mother is in you? >> well, my mother loved food, too. she did. she loved her kids. >> rose: loved to write. >> she loved to write. she understood and really conveyed to us that work was, qln, the great-- a great passion. that you couldn't live without work, that that's-- when you were asked what--, "what are you going to be when you grow up?" the question was answered in terms of work, not in terms of motherhood or, you know, being married. it was, "what are you going to do?" >> rose: is that the way you define it? >> the great passion? >> rose: yeah. >> probably, probably. . >> rose: and journalism, tell me about your-- the arc of your-- your attitude about journalism. >> oh, i think -- >> why are you look at me? you know i know what you're going to say. >> well, because journalism is somet