it's an old medieval abbey outside limerick. so she died in--she died in new york and we had her cremated and we took her back there. she used to say, 'i want to be buried with my own people in mongrie.' and -i said--she was a large woman as you saw from that earlier picture, i said, 'do you know the cost of transporting your body to ireland?' so we cremated her anyway and took her back and five or six days of grief and celebration. c-span: when did she die? guest: 1981. december of '81. oh, yeah. oh, my--that's the can of ashes that we were sprinkling. it was a very strange occasion because there were--malachy was there and our wives were there and a group of friends. and i think we'd all drifted away fro--i--what i remember mostly a--abo--was our awkwardness at what--i mean, usually we're not caught short for words. but --i think malachy and i felt a bit awkward at--on this occasion because we simply didn't know what to do. usually you have a priest taking care of it, but i j--there was a pause, we sprinkled the ashes, then i'