lisa pattison: there he is. asleep. gosh. as lisa's husband, but the rest of the family didn't get it. he'd long been an awkward fit to that. but i have no tin foil. dennis murphy: at holiday gatherings, they couldn't help but notice how tough he was on lisa's son, dillon. the stepdad bossed him around like a raw recruit and meted out harsh punishments for the slightest misstep. dillon recalled what scott ordered him to do one winter, when the boy neglected to take out the morning mail. it was 6:00 am in the morning, and he actually said, take your clothes off. leave your underwear on, and you're gonna go walk out to the mailbox. i had a great mom, but i always wanted a better fatherly figure. dennis murphy: now, when it came to his mom, scott could put on the charm. give me a hug. well, he said, don't be getting jealous. oh, for pete's sake. dennis murphy: but to lisa's mother and sister, scott never measured up. i wanted her to be with someone that totally respected her and loved her with all their heart. and i didn't see th