people who give or volunteer are less depressed and have lower blood pressure and livelonger. >> fory give than when they get. >> those are the same pleasure centers that are lit up when you have sex and when you have -- when you fall in love and when you eat candy. >> "new york times" columnist and his wife have written a new book called "a path of tears" in which they issue a challenge to all of us. if we want a truly fulfilled life, we must give back. >> a lot of people feel there is not much i can do, especially looking at the problems out there. >> any one individual can't solve a problem in its entirety. but one individual can have a transform tiff impact. >> for 50 cents you candy worm a -- can de worm a child preventing a lifetime of health problems and for $50 you can buy books for a child, dramatically boosting their educational attainment. >> you say to do a little more. >> absolutely. we think if you fold into your life it becomes a part of your life. >> make giving a habit, they say. we now know it not only helps others, but it helps you. dan harris, abc news, new york.