weddings. >>> lloyd ford missed his children's birthdays. ons, their weddings, sandy's brother walked her down the aisle. lloyd missed all that are so his family was told, he had left them all. just did not care. >> just not having him was hard. to think he had walked away. we could not even stand it to the point my brother and i never had pictures of our dad in the house. if you have a picture, someone will ask about your dad, and you have to admit the person you thought you were closest to in the whole world had turned and walked away. where is your dad now? i don't know. >> of course, it was a lie. their father never left them. the truth when police finally called to tell them? >> it was almost indescribable to think he had been murdered the way he had been murdered. with absolutely no regard for human life. non-. treated like a piece of garbage. that was hard. >> yes, and then they discovered that lloyd's own son had unknowingly dug his father's grave when judy told him to prepare a hole to plant a peach tree. >> i think it's almost impos