beth lochtefeld's body on the living room floor.just weeks after she thought she had found the love of her life and dreamed of a new beginning. for the lochtefeld family, life would never be the same. what did you lose on that day? >> i would have to say i lost my best friend and confident apart from my wife, she was my closest sibling. we always got along very well. >> leslie got a call that same day. when you heard the news, how was a tool to you? >> he killed her. and i just remember being in shock. i didn't see it coming, i didn't know it was coming, it was shocking. >> you knew exactly who he was. >> oh yeah. yeah. i did. >> tom toolan was arrested, picked up in rhode island, with bottles of beer and vodka in the car with him, his bloody clothes in a bag on the back seat. the road island state police videotaped his arrest and recorded his voice in the cruiser. >> can i be told why this -- why am i in the situation, sir? >> he was held without bail and arrange a month later. burnett finney was in the courtroom, she could barely