elaine lofquist is marv's wife and carrte r.y met in high-school and have been married for 53 years. >> doing something with just marv and i just alone is fun and we enjoy doing that. tht having an activity that we can go to ther people is ngen more beneficial for us in srms of not feesolated. >> i thif isolation is one .f the worst things you can do in any situati but especily with memory loss. i don't want to be sitting there and not, not feeling like i can't participate. cannot conibute. getting a group like we had together to look at some a work or talk aboutome things-- that's what i still want to keep doing is, you know, what can i find enjoyable? but what can i find to do? what can i find that's meaningful? >> as more people unfortunately get alzheimer's disease, you're going to start, i think, seeing the seeds of a-- really an advocacy movement of people with memory loss stating that, "i'm ill here and my values, my opinions, my thoughts, preferences matter." >> how can we turn some of the negativity around alzheimer's a