looking back on her recent career what was like to be on the campaign trail and benches and bill loneliness and the ivy league classrooms she had a bit of a struggle when she first got there at age 17 and worked her way through with friends and her determination. >> how did the whole affirmative action debate affect her career at princeton and a sense of herself to live in two worlds? to be other than just a shawl? >> she wrote in her senior thesis that princeton made me more aware of my blackness more than chicago because of the nature of princeton at that time where black students were in the minority and they're not so many women in she said i got to princeton i saw kids with the of bmw i knew adults did not have those and also many black students felt not welcome and that is something she was very aware of. >> even on campus in her dormitory with her first roommate. >> it is a remarkable story having to do with the mother of her freshman roommate. this is a story that she herself tells with some chagrin at this point. she is in the dorm room and craig robinson shows up and she wasn't an

who can pity my loneliness. why not just return home and learn to plow the fields? >> thank you. what are some of the messages here in that first part? >> the detention and center of angel island, just the environment was bleak, and the long detentions and environment caused a lot of the detainees to become emotionally depressed and probably chronically depressed judges by the counts of suicides and many questioned why they came in the first place. >> that goes into the second half. after experiencing such loneliness and sorrow, why not just give up and learn to plow the fields. coming with lots of hope to the united states, this experience changing them, and causing this loneliness, despair, so much so that he cannot bear to talk about it. and really questioning why they came to the united states in the first place. okay. last poem. last volunteer. >> parting with my brothers and classmates because of the mount, i hate to cross the american ocean. how was i to know the western barbarians had lost their hearts. they mistreat us chinese. it is not enough after being interrogated a

warren licht says frequent business travel may cause loneliness, but he's not worried about your travel for pleasure. sleep disruption, however, is on his radar. >> especially when you fly, when you fly west, the actual jet lag could be extremely terrible. when you fly through many time zones, your body does not catch up. >> maybe the researchers were talking about the tsa experience. now that can be stressful. once our travelers were filled in on this scary study -- will you listen to this study? >> no. >> no. [laughter] >> and there you have it. now, reading this study makes us think of two other studies. one says less americans have less than two weeks of vacation every year, and another says most of them don't use up their vacation time. arthur chen, fox 5 news. >> i don't know, i use up all my audrey? >> who doesn't? how could you not use your vacation time? [laughter] >> i know, it's mind boggling. >> the weather's beautiful here, right, audrey? >> it is. although we do have some clouds beginning to roll in across parts of the tristate area, but today with all the sunshine we had

. >> -- disdain but also loneliness. >> it's kind of -- to some extent that's pretty accurate.er of a bar in 1983, he's an alcoholic, but did some writing back in the day. >> let's say i'm the bartender. you'd be up with me, be talking, and you might turn and go, what do you think, sully? do you know what i mean? >> how dreary. [laughter] >> that's his last words, how dreary. everybody's not interested in our conversation right now. [laughter] now we're on to dead poets. >> we know that, because we're looking at each, too much eye contact, like just save me and i'll save you. >> i know it. you know what i noticed about this crowd? >> this crowd in particular? >> always. the minute you stopped the music, or like the video entertainment, three seconds in, staring judgmentally. >> well, that's a good point. i guess you might say stop hyping them with too much music and video. maybe start out with this part, then go to the video later. i don't know. i'm not a producer. >> i mean this, you're honest, i'm going to take your notes to heart -- what the [bleep]? when did pippy longstock

i went on ashley madison out of loneliness and despair and found friendship, both male and female withped in terrible marriages try to do right by their children. my experiences have led me to soften my views of marriage as my own marriage is a deeply humbling, painful long-term commitment. i expect to be ridiculed by colleagues, to lose my job and be publicly shamed. when my outing happens, i suppose i might as well stand for those trapped in bad marriages. many of us are doing the best we can, trying in our own imperfect way to cope with alienation, loneliness and deprivation. i do not want to hurt my children or husband. i truly wish had a good one and want happy marriages for others. i did what i did trying to cope. maybe it was a bad idea but again i have met some decent people on ashley madison, some of whom are now dear friends. joining us are glenn greenwald, cofounder of the intercept and contributing writer for the week. i have been following your posts about this. you know, the beginning of the coverage of this reminds me of the beginning of the coverage of the movie stars w

and it is one of the most beautiful, intimate experiences i have had, and the themes of the book, lonelinessreaching this age, in your early or mid 30's when you realize i have been working hard towards getting there, and then you find out the secret that there is no there, that the road just goes on forever, and you have to figure out how to be ok with what is ok. john: and it is not a guy name david lipsky who goes to interview david foster for infinite jest, and they spend days together. ,ou have done a lot of tours and you have dealt with a lot of journalists in your life. what do you think the movie reveals about the nature of the writer/subject or the writer/celebrity relationship? is complicated, but at the same time, david had one they came out the same year that did not do as a, so you meet a guy meeting and idol, a guy he idolizes me also once to dethrone, and to go to that, you realize the person interviewing you might have interests that diverge from your own, that you are trying to communicate a a point across, and seeing the person interviewing you might want to take your words

"one obvious feature of our generation is a strong sense of loneliness... most of us were growing grew up without the company of siblings or cousins, which results in some flaws in interpersonal communication and sense of responsibility." "as both my wife and i are the only child of our respective families... we are entitled to have two kids. but we are hesitating about this, for because we will face greater pressure to raise another child, which costs a large sum amount of money and energy. >> if we have two kids, perhaps we can create a more favorable living better environment for the development of their personalities. they'll tend to be healthier psychologically. and when my husband and i are getting get old and can't keep pace with the times, the two kids can help each other by discussing problems and offering valuable suggestions. they can trust each other to help them to pull through." with or without a sibling, jiahe will grow up in a china with a very different social fabric than his predecessors. ...one that will create new obstacles for making a

so much, where does she go, where does she find the strength to battle the fear, to battle the loneliness?" >> through me, in the first months and maybe years of my marriage, i remember feeling extremely protective of my husband. and i kind of acted as... when we were together, i acted almost like another member of his security. i was always... >> hinojosa: i was shocked to read that, honestly. i was like, "oh, my gosh, she's standing in front of him?" >> it was just an instinctive... it was just instinctive, because... and this is where the answer to your question comes in. because he represented not only the love of my life and the father of my children and my partner and so much that was important to me in terms of my work, but he represented so much in terms of the hope and prospects for peace in our region, because of the example he set, and because of his constant 24-7 efforts to achieve that. i can attest to that, because he was working to achieve peace in his dreams. i heard it at night. and that is... so that was the reason that i felt so protective of him, because he was somethi

that is a catch-22 that the loneliness.we were talking about the demise of batista, another chapter in this saga. mark: that is very shakespearean. starting to see how much money is this man has lost. according to one story on bloomberg.com -- >> $30 billion. mark: even faster than what his commodities and energy empire collapsed. this is a breathtaking loss of money. i was mentioning to one of the producers today, it is interesting that we now described him as former billionaire. betty: exactly. formerly this man had at one i wanted to be the world's richest man. world fastest declining billionaire. i might ask, this loss of money, this loss of his wealth, what has been meant for the overall economy? brazil has its own problems. but the context is very interesting because did the lines of our kids have been two years ago, and the sun went with .hem when the wave movie review was the first one to realize that we were naked and as we can see, and he said before this segment, how bad can hundreds markets had enjoyed today. br

frequent travel can lead to stress and loneliness and health issues. let's see how the findings back up on the street. >> we were not heard for the first few days after jet lag when we arrived here. >> vacation can be stressful. reporter: researchers introduced us to a term called hypermobility. quagmire it, it's psychological consequences, some are calling it the dark side. this doctor is our travel expert and he says frequent business but he's not worried about travel for pleasure, but the disruption is on his radar. >> especially when you fly west. the actual jet lag can be extremely terrible. reporter: researchers were talking about their tsa experience. now, that can be stressful. here is the bottom line. once the travelers were filled in on this study. >> would you listen to the study remapped. >> now. >> reading this makes us think of many studies. one says most individuals don't even use up all their vacation time a lot of that work. thinking about that stresses me out. christina: a behind-the-scenes look in ellen degeneres's clothing line. she

i will never forget that realization and that loneliness.at the wetterlings are going through. >> wetterling was abducted at gunpoint last night while riding his bike with two other boys. >> certainly nothing has happened at school with jacob. i'm not aware of having any enemies. >> i'm like staring in la-la land. i know i was in shock. i couldn't say anything. and jerry was doing the best that he could to stand and be strong and be the spokesperson. >> nobody knows what to do. this doesn't happen here. you hear that all the time. we live here because it's peaceful and quiet. >> child abduction is the most difficult investigation law enforcement will confront in their careers, and it's probably one of the most dreaded, as well. because of the intense pressure, the lack of information so oftentimes and all you're looking for is a child, so it's a needle in a haystack. >> from the outset, we were getting a great response from law enforcement. i think for the first ten days or so, law enforcement were manned here 24 hours on the phone. >> at on

loneliness, the things he has seen and the things that he has done is the kind of the strong strife weere working with. all three of us, when these people have interpersonal relationships, they start to dramatically escalate. all of these elements of character. they start to reveal themselves. charlie: after the success of "12 years a slave," did you try to be careful about what you are doing or did you look for good projects? nothing had changed other than you were better-known? globally. ejiofor: i think that is what happened. i was constantly in the search for interesting projects. there was a lot to do with, a lot to bring. charlie: did you see more? ejiofor: yes and no. more projects, but the specifics -- charlie: not many good projects? ejiofor: the requirements that i have are complex. they are hard to explain. but the -- charlie: why are they hard to explain? ejiofor: they are slightly, in a sense, abstract. it's a feeling or a tone. appealthing that might to me, might seem a strange choice. charlie: as opposed to the agent standpoint. ejiofor: any combination. charlie: and it'

all you have is hate, loneliness, greed, and just misery. >> when we met gerald mccullough at the riverend national security institution near nashville, tennessee, he was halfway through a 12-year sentence on a sexual offense charge. >> there's no way out. there's just nothing to do. this is just a total waste of someone's life. >> despite his pessimism, mccullough had found a productive outlet to express his pain. ♪ they say it's raining in denver ♪ ♪ that it's really kind of cold but i'm just pulling time in nashville ♪ ♪ how am i supposed to know ♪ >> in a prison in nashville the home of country music, we decided it would be great if we could find a country singer, and so we kind of made a callout to the other inmates and officers and they came up with mcculloch and he turned out to be pretty good. ♪ said she never talked about me ♪ ♪ how it never did seem right ♪ ♪ i've been pulling time in nashville ♪ ♪ wasting days and wasting nights ♪ >> writing music in prison is just my life. i don't sit down to write a song. something hits me and my best songs come with about two minutes and a

on the other hand, people read into themes of loneliness, quiet sexuality.eople read unbelievable things into it. that is what was so shocking the. i knew that they were not without undertones. i knew that they were not simple snapshots, but some of the ways they were interpreted were shocking to me. charlie: you knew there would be controversy. sally: i didn't, but i found out soon enough. i say i was blindsided, and i was. charlie: by all the things people said and what they accused you of, photographing naked children. sally: yeah, there was that. charlie: on the other hand, people consider them brilliant and beautiful. it marked you as a photographer. people said, a great photographer has just appeared. that was the beginning of sally mann's public reputation. sally: yeah, that's true. charlie: i'm amazed at the things you did. you clearly were conscious of making sure they talked to psychologists. notwere concerned about showing photographs that they didn't like. charlie: right -- sally: right. charlie: i gave them editorial control. sally: editorial di

if you are willing to go there because these are emotions and people talking about feelings of loneliness dissatisfaction and depression and thoughts of suicide and that going to feel like i'm reciting something somebody else said or am i willing to speak from the heart. that's what felt like the biggest challenge. charlie: at the time that you -- you are about 34? you were 34. and he was about 34 at this time in his life. and you were thinking about the idea of where do i fit in and i have huge success on television but not exactly what i define as who i am. >> i think was at a point -- i was feeling a real separation between what i was thinking about and what i was putting on screen, which doesn't feel good when you write your own material. i look back and it is reflective of where i was at 24 years old where a breakup is the biggest thing in the world and call it the breakup, like anyone else cares. to some extent, i got less brave about my choices and i thought i had success doing this thing and i will continue doing that. at some point i started to feel like why am i continuing to do

i guess for most people when they come to prison, the hardest part about being in prison is the loneliness. there's no companionship while you're in prison. but that's not for me. i'm not lonely and i can have companionship. >> sex in prison is supposed to be a no-no but it happens. people spend a lot of time together. it is what it is, you know. >> this is my second time here at seward. the last time i was here, oh my god. me and the boyfriend lived in the same cell. we had the matching comforters and the matching jackets and whatever. we had packages come in and always have the matching set or whatever. we were a little couple, you know what i'm saying? dysfunctional but it's all right. so i don't try as hard to stay out of prison like i should. which brings me back to places like this. >> though both sam and polando talk openly about their sexual experiences in prison, their outlooks are quite different. >> of course i'm not. oh, my god. i don't want to get into my partners. but you know. i'm not going to go without. please. >> let's see. i've had relationships before in jail that were

he's tired of the loneliness, the emptiness, the frustration, the hopelessness, so he prefers death.ransferred to tennessee's death row located at river bend maximum security institution more than 100 miles away. >> we're getting rid of one of our most dangerous inmates. we just have to make sure everything sets in motion right and no mistakes are made. because when you deal with an inmate like that, mistakes cost you. i asked him how he was feeling today, and the statement he made was, "i'm alive," and, you know, he jokes about that. he jokes about it all the time. >> my life fits in two bags. >> see you later. all right. all right. that's part of prison life. you don't get attached to inmates. steve's a likable guy, but he's a very dangerous individual, and that's just part of it. you know, you see inmates come and go every day. and to me he's just one of the inmates that's come and gone. >> one week later, stephen was hughley was granted a stay of execution when he decided to resume the appeals process. he may have to wait out his appeals at another facility. in 2005 tennessee dep

there are certainly issues that he had before, but this sort of intense loneliness, this intense -- the things that he's seen and perhaps done and that he carries with him is the kind of strong, inner life that we were working with. i think all three of us and the director were working for the strong areas of inner life so when these sort of interpersonal relationships started to sort of dramatically escalate, all of these elements of character start to reveal themselves. >> rose: after all the success of "12 years a slave," did you sit back and say, i've got to be very careful about what i do now? or did you simply say, i'll look for good projects, and nothing had changed other than you were better known globally? >> i think that's what happened, that i was constantly in the search for interesting projects, you know, things i thought there was a lot to do with and a lot to bring. >> rose: and did you see exponentially more? >> well, yes and no. there were more projects around, but, you know, the specific -- >> rose: not necessarily that many more good projects. >> well, the specific re

but i started to wonder about those last few pages where the internet becomes weirder, lonelier. [ lightr ] so allow me to take you into the bowels of the internet with a segment we call -- deep google. [ thunderclap ] ♪ [ cheers and applause ] >> seth: summer vacation is almost over and kids everywhere are gearing up to start their next school year, so i thought this would be the perfect time to google "back to school." all right, so here's the first page results for back to school. pretty much what you'd expect. links to school supplies at staples and wal-mart, articles about shopping on a budget. but look at the bottom. look at all those os in google. that means we can go deeper. deeper into -- deep google. [ thunderclap ] [ laughter ] let's check out what's on page seven. looks like we got a buzzfeed list, "17 kids who grew a lot over summer break." [ laughter ] all right, so let's check that out. "kids grow at different rates. here are 17 kids who drew a lot this past summer. click the before photo to see the after." okay. let's check out the first few. 11-year-old twins celia and e

and it really turned into three dudes and me sitting around talking about feelings of loneliness andr like, burritos. [ laughter ] and it spoke to, i think the power of david foster wallace is writing. it's funny enough that he sort of gets the walls down so they can talk about these things that sometimes at night you don't feel so good. >> seth: right. well, it's interesting because even in the film, you as david foster wallace say that a lot of young men were drawn to this book, because he talked about a thing that men sometimes have a hard time discussing. >> yeah. well, i think that you're sort of told if you just work really hard so that you can get home and crack a beer and watch tv, that you should feel satisfied. that that's a good life. and a lot of people don't feel satisfied. and when you put it on achievement, it doesn't seem -- i mean, i danced down hollywood boulevard with the muppets. >> seth: right. >> like, that ought to do it. [ laughter ] >> seth: yeah. >> for a guy like me. and you feel great for a couple of weeks, but pretty soon what's next starts to come into y

she knew about that loneliness. she knew about that heavy responsibility. she could identify with those women and they could identify with her. and with this whole new contingent of voters, the women voters in 1920, she filled this very vital role very adequately in relating to those women voters and bringing them into the game. she thought it was important for them to know about politics and government. so she's right there front and center. >> thank you. cynthia, grace was a very different kind, very different, opposite in the way of mrs. harding. what was her role, if any, in the -- >> grace coolidge stayed home, as i stated, when calvin went to the legislature. there was no governor's mansion in boston. so even though frank waterman-sterns, a friend of calvin coolidge, said i'll buy you a brownstone. i'll put in 32 servants. i'll set you all up. can't you come to boston. and grace will be released to entertain and help you with your role as governor. and calvin coolidge said, no, that's beyond our means and we will not do that. when it comes to the vice

both women felt overcome with loneliness and fear.very early the next morning after a mostly sleepless night, two women welcomed a driver who showed up at the front door. he knew the family and had at least some reassuring news. the family boat was still at the dock. nothing to worry about. would he take them there, lon asked? he agreed, but they would have to wait until that evening. the driver returned as prommed around 9:00 p.m. and they piled into his car. it was raining and storming and people running. it was very hard to get through the traffic lon recalled. finally they reached the river but when the young -- but when they got there the young woman's heart sank. the family boat had left without them. or had it? it appeared to be on the far riverbank. plunging into the river and swimming to the far side briefly crossed her mind but the distance was too great. lon knew she would never make it in her condition. and what about her mother? suddenly it happened like, that i saw the boat from the other side of the river come over to w

and that to me is, the loneliness that i felt watching you do those scenesing particularly at the height alone, it was one-- one to six, everybody on the council was against him. and you said, that we had-- we had sqipd over that but you actually said that is-- put that one back in. i'm glad we did. that was an incredible moment. >> rose: take a look at this video. here it is. >> we elected to appeal the affordable housing portion of the judge's order to the supreme court. the supreme court has refused -- >> repeal all of it, you coward. >> mayor wosisco. >> majority leader color. >> no. >> minority leader longo. >> no. >> council member fagan. >> no. >> council member kima. >> no. >> council member ardsman. >> abstain. >> i have-- the mission failed. >> i mean they knew what was happening. they knew that it was unsustainable. the city was going to be thrown into bankruptcy. but they didn't care. the limits of pop you louse, in some very fundamental way, people's constitutional rights are not about populist sentiment. it's not what the majority wants, it's what is legal under the constit

: this teacher in northbrook, illinois, who was a very kind, gentle man, that seemed to see the lonelinessn other students. there were those of us that felt disconnected from everything and were having trouble at home, felt lonely in the world. he seemed to see that, he noticed everything too. was very kind to the lost souls of the school. at least on the surface. and people gravitated towards him and a trusted him. he was also the athletic trainer. i would see him in the locker room, taping up members of the football team. but one day, he did not come to school. there was an announcement he would not be there. by that time, all the radio and tv in chicago was announcing his arrest for the murder and rape of the son of a policeman. it turns out it was not his first kidnapping and abduction. he had a sophisticated way of picking up hitchhikers. he resigned his post because he intended to go after his own students. on the 20th anniversary, i always thought about him, as funny as that might sound, and i always wondered how that might happen to such a gentle man. i went and found him in prison

he seemed to see the loneliness in others walking around. especially in students.e plenty of lonely students, more than i really realized at the time for job there were those of us that felt disconnected from everything and were having trouble at home, felt lonely in the world. he seemed to see that in us. he noticed everything too. he was very kind to the lost souls of the school. where everyone seemed to have it made, at least on the surface. and people gravitated towards him and trusted him. he was not just the biology teacher -- he was also the athletic trainer. i would see him in the locker room, taping up members of the football team and things like that. but it turned out, one day, he did not come to school. there was an announcement he would not be there. by that time, all the radio and tv in chicago was announcing his arrest for the murder and rape of the son of a chicago policeman. it turns out it was not his first kidnapping and abduction. he had a sophisticated way of picking up hitchhikers. he had tried to stop himself and resigned his post because he

so when you talk about faces, i mean, i saw fear, confusion, loneliness, and that's really, i think, what -- everybody knew someone who was in vietnam or had died in vietnam. these wars are very different, aren't they? >> we are delighted there's so many young people with us this evening. if we still had a draft in this country, it would be a very different, a very different prospect, i suppose. urate, can you tell us a little bit about being wounded? >> well, you know, cason was a very big story, and i broke my rule -- since i was a freelancer, it was very hard to get things into newspapers. never go where all the press goes. if everybody was up there, i was down in the delta, but this was such a big story. marines were under siege since middle of january. i got the assignment from wr radio to interview new yorkers who were in caison. i hitched a ride on a helicopter. there was very limited press accessibility, and i saw, like we always did in vietnam, empty helicopter blades whirring. being a girl, i had that advantage. i looked over and i said, where you going to caison by chance?

because these are very nuanced emotions, and it's people talking about feelings of loneliness and dissatisfaction depression and thoughts of suicide. and is that going to feel like i'm reciting something somebody else said? or am i willing to speak from the heart? that's what felt like the biggest challenge. >> rose: and what's interesting is that at the time that you-- you're about 34, right? >> i'm 35 now. >> rose: but you were 34. and he was about 34 at that time in his life. same age, same height same age. and in a sense you were thinking about the idea of where do i fit in? what do i do next? i have this huge success on television but it's not exactly what i define as who i am. a parallel. >> i think i was at a point-- yeah, i was feeling a real separation between what i was thinking about and what i was putting on the screen. the, which doesn't feel good when you write your own material. i look back at something like "forgetting sarah marshall" and it's really reflective of where i was at 24 years old where a breakup feels like the biggest thing in the world and you call it "the breakup" li

on the other hand, people read into themes of loneliness, you know, and quiet, sexuality. >> people read unbelievable things into it. i mean that was what was so shocking to me was that, i mean i knew that they were not without undertones. i knew that they were not simple snapshots. but some of the ways that they were interrupted were shocking to me. >> rose: you knew there would be controversy. >> i didn't. but i found out soon enough, yeah. i mean i say i was wlind sided and i was. >> rose: by all the things that people said. >> yeah. >> rose: and what they accused you of because you were photographing naked children. >> yeah there was that, yeah. >> rose: on the other hand, people considered them beautiful and brilliant and-- reasons i hope so. >> rose: it marked you as a photographer. people said a great photographer has just appeared. that was the beginning. >> yeah. >> rose: of sally mann's public rep takes. >> yeah, yeah, that's true. >> rose: and then there is too the things that you did, i mean you clearly were conscious of making sure you had them talk to a psychologist. >> uh-

she knew about that loneliness. she knew about that heavy responsibility. she could identify with those women and they could identify with her. and with this whole new contingent of voters, the women voters in 1920, she filled this very vital role very adequately in relating to those women voters and bringing them into the game. she thought it was important for them to know about politics and government. so she's right there front and center. >> thank you. cynthia, grace was a very different kind, very different, opposite in the way of mrs. harding what was her role, if any? >> grace coolidge stayed home, as i stated, when calvin went to the legislature. there was no governor's mansion in boston. so even though frank waterman-sterns said i'll buy you a brownstone. i'll put in 32 serveants. i'll set you all up. can't you come to boston. and grace will be released to entertain and help you with your role as governor. and calvin coolidge said, no, that's beyond our means and we will not do that. when it comes to the vice presidency, she did not campaign again.