i do i think it makes a difference i think there's this community right here in longmont colorado which is a prison for. i have some friends that really kind of make it's overwhelming busy the way that they feel about when we get together on stage and jam and stuff. and that that's so worth it to me right there. was the. that's her 10 months old we were out of care and you don't want. certain about a year and a half in like 3 that's her mom karen this is when karen's always came to live with me here in this house so it was 2 and a half from them. and they had lived here. for a half years now i do i do not have children i have never been married i've been single all my life i'm really not very relationship oriented i identify primarily as gay but even without like a sam not very relationship oriented and i just never felt very good about the idea of bringing children into the world because i didn't feel like things were in very good shape that a life was just going to be a lot of suffering for them d.n.a. has made as very competitive by necessity that's just how species evolve been the s