brought in a picture and said, they are prepared to use this picture of you with this woman answered lookingedt that time and he said, mmm, i remember her well.nged at that time and he said, mmm, i remember her well.ged at that time and he said, mmm, i remember her well.ed at that time and he said, mmm, i remember her well. he took it in stride but he was very, very lucky. >> those guys from that era, because this digital trail that now comes -- >> also the women that fell in love, had affairs with jfk, mostly fell in love with him. and yet, the affairs that he had with white house secretaries would have been considered so inappropriate for a boss. >> should it matter, kitty, you have written about all these great characters, sinatra and jfk and others, they are all flawed but they are all, in their own way, geniuses. avenues political genius. sinatra was a musical genius. does it matter if they have affairs? >> i think that is such a great question. part of me says there really should be a divide between the public man and the private man. notice we are talking men, not women. it is always me