and we had lori haskell, an amazing therapist onset. she could be phoned.he was there for difficult scenes. and we had a rule that any time anyone needed a break, they just took it, that we would not have this sort of emergency room mentality that can happen on film sets. >> we had to initially hold each other off on and off sets and also laugh and, you know, keep it light and kind of just to with each other, and every single woman and men in that room, we all had each other's back. >> it was tough. there were some really tough, long, hard, brutal, technically difficult days, but we just got through it together. i don't think i will ever have an experience like that again. >> one of the big questions in the film is should we forgive. you have written about your experiences of abuse and trauma. have you come to your own conclusions about the question? >> i think it is about forgiveness is not necessarily an endpoint or destination. i think it can come and go. i think for the most point, i do live in a state basically of forgiveness. i don't think i carry alo