both madonna badger and cassidy stay lost their entire families.in to help someone whose loss is so profound? where do you start? >> yeah, there is no way of possibly for any of us to possibly understand the magnitude of that kind of a loss. basically, you're family and your life as you knew it is obliterated, and you're starting from scratch. so it's admiral that they can even get to the next breath. and to see a young woman standing up on behalf of her family, and to see another family, another person whose whole family was lost paying it forward and giving her core advice is extremely admiral. but we have to be really careful. when we start using words like negative and when we start telling people they have to be positive, we're skipping over one of the most important elements of grieving, and that is the choiceless phase that we go through where we may be in shock, but the shock is going to wear off and reality is going to set in. >> but i wonder at her age, though, as a teenager, how much do you think she understands of what is going on? >> w

and you've seen the letter from madonna badger to cassidy stay.ssage of love and strength. does that resonate with you? >> oh, definitely, definitely. every person that wrote to me from all over the world were telling me that they're praying for me, that they were thinking about me. and that is definitely what kept me going. and i really think what's brought me here today to be more positive, to write the book "i choose to be happy" because it is a choice you make. i know it is definitely something that cassidy is going to have to do. she's going to have to make a choice on whether to be angry and mad about what happened or change the situation and do something that she could look for a positive thing and help others that might be suffering through this. and kind of put, you know, kind of use it for good. make sure that it doesn't always have to be negative. because if we let the negative shine through we're just letting that control us. and that's exactly what i felt i wanted to live. i had a second chance out of life. i wanted to turn that trage

madonna badgers who lost her three daughters and parents in the 2011 christmas day fire in stamford,s photo of her real estate broker and now husband william duke. badger announced last november she was engaged. we want to send our heart felt congratulations to them. >>> the number of adolescent boys and girls getting the hpv vaccine remains unacceptbly low. the centers for disease control estimates only 57% of girls and 35% of boys have received at least one dose of the vaccine. they are urging doctors to recommend this vaccine when young patients are brought in for other routine shots. >>> acetaminophen is used as a treatment for back pain, but a study from australia says it's no better than a placebo when it comes to easing an aching back. they gave some patients acetaminophen while others got sugar pills. after three months there were no differences among the group's pain levels, recovery, or quality of life. >>> little leaguers aren't the only ones who make embarrassing errors. cleveland indians ryan rayburn earned a hall of fame entry into the blooper reel. ryan rayburn couldn'