malil's family, a very decent, respectful family lost their family member and his child lost him. >> ago was august 2008, you're in your backyard, it's a beautiful evening, you're sipping wine with a friend, actually. your children at that time, how old were they at that time. >> they were 2 and 4. >> they're asleep upstairs when shelley malil shows up. when you saw him, did you immediately realize something was going on? >> absolutely. he came over uninvited from hollywood. >> and you're in san diego. >> so she was an uninvited guest. so immediately when i saw him, i felt a primal instinct of fear. >> at what point did you realize that your life was really in danger? >> interestingly enough, shelley was never violent with me, and i never felt my life was in danger at any time. as i said in my speech after the verdict, i don't feel that shelley acted alone. so while i feel safer that he's been convicted, i don't feel completely safe. >> i want to get to that in a moment, but just to go back to the evening that this all happened, he came with a knife, and he tried to stab you, your fr