attack me, no big deal, go after my children, mama bear comes out.oved to new york, we became a single family with three kids. we live inside harlem in the '70s, it was tough. i will tell you one quick story, we got beat up a lot because we spoke proper english and wore the wrong clothes. one day i fought the ringleader. if it was a disney movie, it would have been over. they circled me later on that night, about 12, 13 of 'em. one guy was choking the hell out of me, and as i was blacking out, who do i see running out the building in her nightgown and a knife in her hand? >> a knife? mama meant business. charles: it wasn't like a movie beat-up, i was being stomped, jamie. but these single mothers in these commitments, i mean, people -- these communities, i mean, people don't understand what they do. i tip my hat to them. >> i love this mother even knew where her son was. i mean, at a minimum talk about taking responsibility like we were talking about these people should take personal responsibility. parents have got to take responsibility in this cou