when manard came to toby's rescue.had cornered her. >> i was terrified. and then i saw john manard swaggering up. from behind this inmates that was accosting me. and i felt this sense of relief, because i thought, oh, now here comes somebody that will help me. >> toby started spending more time around manard who was 20 years younger. >> we would have these really deep conversations about life and the world. and this was something i had been craving forever. and somebody to just have conversations with. >> and then, around six weeks before the escape, they crossed the line. >> we were just setting up for a dog event and he just leaned over and kissed me. it was like, i was on cloud nine. it just made it, like, unquenchable. >> there would be no more kisses after that. but toby had fallen hard for manard. >> when people start falling in love, they change. there is a big smile on their face. was your husband thinking, what is going on with toby? >> i do think he noticed a difference. but he couldn't put his finger on it.