. >> man up. >> man up. >> man up. >> the three most destructive words that every man receives when he's a boy, when he's told to be a man. >> if a guy is trying to juggle modern pressures and changing gender roles, are these messages harmful? here is aaron tracer, from salon and redbook, and he's also a stay at home dad. justin, apologists writer, and israel, a journalist, rog rico is a writer, and he's a father. and tyler is a nationally syndicated columnist. what does it mean to be a man in today's society and how does it change from the path? >> i can only speak about what it is to be a man. at least unless you know something that i don't know, i haven't checked my email, but it's not my turn. >> how about for you to be a man in today's society, jimmy, how would you define it for myself? >> i make no decisions and don't listen to what people tell me how to be a man, i just do what i think is right and take responsibility if i'm wrong. >> tyler, i'm going to go to you for this question. what do you think is society's definition of manhood today? >> well, i'm from texas, and as a self-

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in the '70s, we lost a man a mile basically. here, maybe we've had two or three deaths in the last 20 years, which is too much anyway, but it's cut down a lot. hurwitz: city tunnel number 3 will be an opportunity to take city tunnel 1 out of operation and rehabilitate it. city tunnel number 1 had one valve to shut off the whole tunnel. city tunnel 2 had two parallel valves. city tunnel 3 has 32, so there's much more redundancy. lloyd: we're targeting a completion date of 2012 for tunnel 3. and we already are starting to prepare to take tunnel 1 offline. narrator: the construction of tunnel 3 is vital for maintaining the sustainability of new york's drinking water infrastructure. but the pipeline is useless if there's not a reliable supply of clean water within it. hurwitz: the city bought up land around the reservoirs to prevent it from development. it provides assistance to local residents to see that there's no pollution of the reservoirs. it's much more cost effective to prevent pollution and to protect a source of water than

keep the man open. keep the man open. and one thing that you must know, he must always be on top of man. >> he really saw you as his friend, didn't he? >> yes >> and you see him as your friend. >> as a father. >> today christo doesn't think nelson mandela used him, but feels nelson mandela extended the same olive branch he later extended to all whites. >> whilst inside prison he was something for the people to believe in, look forward for maybe one day >> did you believe in him? >> yes. >> a man who made believers of his friends and foes to free his people. >> marathon 90 leaders from around the world made the journey to johannesburg to celebrate an honour - nelson mandela. >> the joyous event up next. >> all he does is make you feel comfortable. he makes you feel like you're the important one. >> a profound dignity, the warmth, the smile. this was the last time nelson mandela sat for a photo session. it was for a favourite charity. what those moments were like - coming up. [ singing ] >> reaction was instant - moving and

these are the final moments of a man, nelson mandela. a man that they know and love. they see the coffin file past as well. this is it, the final moment for him to be laid to rest in peace. a lot of people are very happy about that. >> indeed, for many of them. thank you. we'll leave that site there and leave many of those people living there in conditions of poverty, this may well have been the first opportunity for any of them, even though they heard the news, to see pictures of the coffin, of the ceremonial side of these ten days of mourning. many of them probably not having any means to watch a tv. i have to remind anybody just joining us that we are watching the final public moments of the funeral of nelson mandela. he was a man that died on december 5th at the age of 95, brought home at last as many people have pointed out, finally reaching the end of his long walk to freedom. he was brought home to his ancestoral home of qunu where within the next few minutes he will be buried. ornl only a small number of people out of the four and a half thousands that filled

a remarkable man. a life that is a true treasure to humanity. >> he is a star across all lines. >> you cannot compartmentalize him to a politician or a founting of south africa. here's a man who fought the hate and the bigotry and the institutional apartheid of a nation without internalizing it. he was able to reconcile a nation and move it forward and revolutionize it nonviolently, without firing one bullet. i was an election observer in 19 nor in johansburg the night they lowered the flag of apartheid. we met with him many times and to see this transition happen, he nonviolently peacefully negotiated while he was in jail and couldn't even share a lot of what his fellow prisoners who had done decades in jail. he did 27 years in jail. 16 years he couldn't touch his wife's hand through the screen because it was against the law. they wouldn't allow him to get out of jail and go home to his son. the sacrifices he made not to have any ranker and deliberate that nation with no rank and revenge, he was truly

a gracious man. you very seldom can find that combination of virtues and values and principles all in one person. it was all there in one man we all came to love and know mandiba, nelson mandela. >> how about that? >> a fighter but warm and gentle former secretary of state collin powell there. >> stay with us. we will continue to look at the life and legacy of nelson mandela. >> including his love of sports and how he used it to help unite south africa. that's still ahead. . >> welcome back. nelson mandela made an appearance at soccer stadium in johannesburg him he missed the opening ceremony you might recall a great granddaughter had been killed in a car crash just hours before. but the nearly 85,000 spectators final between spain and the netherlands were all delighted to see the former south african president. it was to be his last major public appearance. we haven't talked enough about the nelson mandela smile. my goodness. >> and the laugh. >> yeah. >> and the dancing. >> yes. >> that, too. yes.

he was a complex man, a deep man.ll continue our continuing cover annual of his passing when we come back. stay with us here on cnn. as . >> it's just after 9:30 in the morning in johannesburg. this is the scene there in the market suburb of johannesburg. we have been watching this the last few hours ever since news broke mandela had died, people have been gathering outside his home there. of course, as the day goes on and word spread, we are expecting the crowds to grow as many decide they want to pay their respects in their own way. you can see some people dancing there. they have been sing, chanting. others are laying flowers as well as other tributes. as a mark of respect to a man who has been seen widely as the father. >> they indeed refer him to the word for father, it's more than just a term of endearment, this is how people feel of him, he is, indeed, their father. they feel a connection to the man who has now parted. >> what we can see in these pictures, these live images from johannesburg, black people there

would the man survived? could the man survived? his answer strengthened men and women around the world. >> president obama today quoted nelson mandela, describing himself as a sinner, he keeps on trying. is it important for us not to hide to somem to kind of secular sainthood? >> it is very dangerous to elevate any human being higher highere human brain -- than a human being. young people than are discouraged from trying. they will say this is mr. king or nelson mandela or mahatma gandhi -- what's the point of me trying to be that? i'm just a normal person. >> can i ask you about your memories of the man? >> i have always been impressed with his kindness. he did not indulge rudeness or bad manners, but he was very kind and understood that people can change. will not forget you. we will not dishonor you. we will remember and be glad that you lived among us, that you taught us, and that you loved us. >> maia angelou -- maya angelou there on the day the world paused to remember a great man. >> make sense of international news at bbc.c

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particularly for a young black man. >> here was this strapping young man who had been part of this royalillage who felt this high sense of self-esteem, and he was treated like dirt, like all of the other africans were. >> reporter: here in johannesburg under the harsh realities of racism, mandela meets a man who will change his life forever. >> he walked into walter's office. he was a real estate agent. and mandela was astonished. he realized there was another life that was available. >> reporter: he was also an active member of the african national congress. started in 1912, the anc was created to peacefully advocate for political rights for south africa's blacks. mandela sees the future of the organization. >> he said we at the anc wanted to be a mass organization, and we needed a mass leader. and then one day nelson mandela walked into his office. he realized that's the guy. >> reporter: he becomes mandela's mentor and encourages him to earn a law degree. he also introduces mandela to his young cousin, evelyn masi. the two marry in 1946 and welcomed their first child, a son, that same

he'll be the first to tell you, the man that walked into prison in 1960 was a different man.wouldn't recognize him. he was hot headed, i'm passionened. prison steeled him and all those hours and hours of interviews that we did, i used to always annoy him because i would say, what was different about the man who walked out of prison than the man who walked in? and one day, finally, you me, he said to me, i came out mature. very rare. >> there is a beautiful illustration of that because during the trials or in the early '60s, he was quoted saying to his colleagues, maybe we should reconsider how we're fighting this struggle because it was mostly peaceful in the beginning and this idea should it become more combative, more violent? when we came out of prison, quoted and said to the people now throw away your guns and knives and gather them up and throw them into the sea. so he did go through this amazing transformation. >> at many times in his life, many transformations, donna brazil is squining us. donna, you met him and spent time with him. it can't be over stated. the courage

i think he was really scared. >> larry is able to pin the man to the ground but he is concerned the maniggle loose and retaliate so he cries out to the three other customers watching the fight. >> i had to tell them, grab this guy. grab this guy. you've seen the video that they did grab him and actually followed through for quite a while. >> i'm talking to the girl on 911 and i told her what's happening inside the store. then she is telling me by law you can't hold him down. you have to let him go. i said, why would i let him go when i got good citizens trying to help me out? >> the man fights with the other customers for several minutes but eventually he gives up. police arrive at the scene and remove the man from the store. no charges are filed against him as police find no evidence of a robbery. none of the bystanders who restrained the man is arrested either. for his bravery larry has received praise from thousands of people online. >> i have thousands of messages from strangers just thanking me. lots of messages from people in wheelchairs want to be my friend on facebook. responses

shot that man in the face. and we spoke to the woman who says the suspect is her son, 26-year-old joseph moreland and gunfire wasn't necessary. >> it's not like he was bringing the car toward them to run them over. the other officer was on foot and there were people outside when they were shooting. what if they should have shot somebody's child. >> police tell a different story. they say the shooting was justified because moreland tried to run over the officers. in the district police opened fire on a man after he argued with two patrol officers near alabama avenue. this was in southeast. we still don't know what lead up to the confrontation but a witness claims that the man was not armed when officers shot at him and hit him in the side. his family tells news 4, it was his 38th birthday. >>> new information this morning on four americans held and released by the lybian government. a state department spokesperson says the four members of the u.s. military were near the city of sabratha when they were taken into

well, john brown was a white man who in 1856 decided that slavery was wrong, and he conducted a one-man war against slavery. he went out to kansas, because kansas territory was where slavery -- they were trying to decide whether kansas, when it was being settled, whether there should be slavery -- slavery should be allowed or not. so the pro-slavers, people who were for slavery, came into kansas and they attacked the yankees, who were coming from boston and new york and philly and so forth. john brown went out there with a wagonload of guns, and he got busy. he started kicking the pro- slavers around. when i say "pro-slavers," i'm saying that a lot of these pro- slavers became the jesse james and these mythic figures that were mytholocized, or made into great legends in mythology in american history. john brown went out there and he started wearing them out. eventually, he came back east and he attacked america's biggest arsenal in what is now harper's ferry, west virginia, in an attempt to take over and get -- well, they made 100,000 guns there. he attempted to take it over. he wanted

>> he's a good man. >> rose: he's a good man?d heard he was a good man. >> rose: that what you've heard? >> and i love idris. he doesn't bring any baggage to a character of his own. he soaks it up and comes from the inside out and it's very important with this story particularly to have someone that was prepared to do that and someone brave he has big shoes to fill. >> rose: oh, sure. yeah. what prepared you for this in terms of acting, do you think? >> i don't think there's any one single role -- >> rose: just the evolution of an actor? >> yeah. and it's -- my career's spanned over 20 years but what justin was talking about earlier, you know, that scene in particular that we've just seen the clip of justin didn't allow know rehearse it. the audience weren't told that idris elba is playing this role. they weren't told too much information. they were put into their cus costumes, put into that scene and that film was running for at least six or seven minutes before i steppedened and when i stepped on justin had two or three cameras

>> spider-man having a blast at being spider-man.e off not only the wrath of the big villainous corporation but one of the most size mattic villain lains he's played by jamie foxx who's unbelievably awesome. that battle is going to be his greatest battle as it says on the poster. you know, peter parker -- >> you were a comic book junkie as a kid. >> i love comics. >> so, are you living the dream right now. >> i am. >> you're looking young to be a director. excuse me, sir, you need to step over here we're doing a real interview. you mentioned jamie foxx. >> we have paul giama 2shtti. >> i love paul. >> we got other villains. >> you're literally in the epicenter of new york city right now. >> we shot this -- i think this is the biggest film ever shot in new york state. some of it we shot over there at times square and so, there is a massive, massive action scene that we shot here, it's going to take place in times square. >> you have to tune in to see it. >> you have to tune in to see it. >> may 2nd. is the movie. >> okay. >>> okay, we

but no man had yet set foot on the moon. office, he wasn't about to see the soviets get there first. the next leg of the space race was a series of sprints. >> we launched the saturn v essentially every two months, really a remarkable mission. >> each one bringing the astronauts closer to the goal. apollo 9 was the first to test the lunar module in space. apollo 10 launched in may 1969 had young and cernan flying within 50,000 feet of the lunar surface. that would be a dress rehearsal for the lunar landing of apollo 11, commanded by neil armstrong. >> what will your plans be in the extremely unlikely event that the lunar module does not come up off the lunar surface? >> that's an unpleasant thing to think about. we've chosen not to think about that at the present time. >> the other two crew members were command module pilots michael collins and edwin "buzz" aldrin, who would walk on the moon with armstrong. there was a lot of gossip back and forth, buzz, how it ended up neil armstrong was the first man. you were supposed to

it seems to me a vagina as a man would be more desirable than a man's anus.rt with homosexual behavior and morph out from there. forget what else he's condemning. he's condemning a homosexual behavior, isn't he, ben? >> sure he is and he believes that with the other list that he's against and has been on the show forever. i would never have said it the way he said it, let me make it clear but let's not put words in his mouth and take it for what it is. he did not equate being gay with beastiality. what is your view of this. >> first, he did express things in a crude way but you got upset about quoting from his message in pennsylvania, that was mainly the words of paul in romans the first chapter. it's not to say sexual acts outside male, female marriage are prohibited in scripture. it's bigoted that he gets fired. you have reality tv shows that's fine. that's not a problem. that's to be celebrated. when he says i'm a bible thumper, i hold to biblical factors. i hold to these things, how is that bigotry? >> i hear this a lot from so-called christian -- wait a

than just the man.his for people so that the message doesn't die with the man? >> i think the lesson is you have to be able to reconcile with your rivals and your enemies. and that the things that actually bring you together are much greater than what divides you. and the challenge for south africa now is not to -- use what he's done to make that nation grown and continue to expand and evolve. i do think south africa is in a little bit of a perilous situation now. i think if people are buried backward looking and say he's gone, how can we survive? >> here, too, rich. >> here -- >> it's a message that should resonate everywhere. >> the world over. >> i think people understand that message, in some ways better here than they do there. there he is a father figure. so people still are enthralled that, how can we still live when he is gone? and they certainly can. i think it's a challenge for the anc there, a challenge for jacob zuma to learn the lessons and move on. >> we've been hearing a lot of wonderful

a magnificent man. >> you made a terrific tribute then. want to go back to your comments about god. you put out a press relief in which you said god spent a long time making nelson mandela. other are than some things you said, what else made nelson mandela special? well, i could not imagine a story of somebody heading for freed, comitted no long criminal or moral or gaol for 27 years by a minority in a country, that he was a part of the majority. i was at his inauguration. to have next to him the white prison gods that he had forgiven. but just to be able to do it. i think they would never test me for that type of forgiveness, bringing together white racist in south africa, is it with the majority of africans, something that most would believe that led to blood shed, instead of all of the people coming together to elect him as president. and as a politician. him leaving the office and not being a - not being defeated in office, is seldom something you see that great people are act do that and to walk away and turn the country over to other

. >> the man who transformed a nation and inspired the world. david muir with the first lady on her cherished moment with mandela. >> what did you say to him? >> i just said thank you, thank you. thank you. >> robin roberts and the mandela family, the private man behind the legend. >> he likes to gossip. >> the story you haven't heard about his 27 years behind bars. one on one with the white jailer, who became his most unlikely friend. and the inspiring story behind the hit movie, the gamble played out on a rugby field that would unite black and white. >> i don't think i've seen so many grown men on the rugby field crying. >> tonight the humility. >> he said what is the subject of today's show. >> the humor, and the young estrogeneration he inspired, to imagine. as we celebrate nelson mandela, a man who changed the world. here now david muir. and robin roberts. >> good evening, his long walk has come to an end. now his legacy lives on. tributes to nelson mandela pouring in from world leaders, flags at the white house, the un and across south afr

electronic good-byes for the man who brought the world together.c news, new york. >>> well, those electronics good-byes are exploding across social media. newspapers, eulogizing the civil rights icon. >> some of this morning's notable headlines. britain's "daily mail." death of a colossus. "new york times" calling him fighter, prisoner, president and symbol. south africa's "cape times" 1918-2013. and "the daily news," farewell, dear friend. ♪ or getting a better seat? ♪ or let's say there's an accident. if you have esurance, you can use their mobile app to start a claim... upload a few photos... and get your money fast. maybe that doesn't make you a control freak. more like a control enthusiast. esurance. insurance for the modern world. now backed by allstate. click or call. esurance. insurance for the modern world. what does that first spoonful taste likok. honey bunches of oats. ching! mmmm! mmmm! mmmm! wow! it's the oats. honey. yeah. honey bunches of oats. this is a great cereal. for aveeno® positively radiant face moisturizer. [ female announc

a man of honor, a man who lived for a purpose and was repaired to guide that purpose and to free the people of south africa from the chains of apartheid. and not to take the black position against the white position but make it one south africa, black and white together moving forward, and he stuck with that principle in a purpose through 27 years of jail but through political difficulties, through all sorts of challenges, and he leaves behind an example for the rest of us to follow. of what it means to have principles and act with moral ad physical courage and be person of character. above all, to remember that we all have a responsibility to help our fellow citizens to achieve a better place in life, to have a freedom and democracy. it isy people fear that useless and futile for us to continue talking peace and nonviolence. >> he was always a presence in my life, in my early years in public service. he was something of a contemporary with martin luther king, junior and the parallels are rather striking an obvious. both of them believed in something and willing to fight and die for

and killed a man in manassas park. the man's body was found yesterday morning between two cars parked right in front of a townhouse. a man who lives in the community tells news 4 that he did hear something strange. he asked us to not to identify him. >> i heard three shots, pop, pop, pop. and i should have got up and looked out the window but i didn't. that's all i heard was the shots. >> neighbors say the community is quite and doesn't have a history of violent crime. the name of the victim has not been released. >>> the red cross is helping dozens of people that are homeless after a temple hills apartment fire. you can see the flames there pouring out of the building. prince george's fire department is still investigating what caused the two-alarm fire. the fire started around 4:30 yesterday afternoon on brinkley road near the rosecroft shopping center. no one was hurt but 27 people are displaced including 10 children. >>> new this morning, things are getting back to normal at phoenix sky harbor international after c

it was about a man, a man who was the face of man's humanity to man.son mandela also making several trips to the white house. his relationship to each president ranging from cordial to course. morgan ratford has more. >> reporter: 1986 an historic moment for the united states congress because the majority voted to over ride their leader, president ronald reagan who vottoed the ban due to apartheid. >> reagan was continuing back to the nixon era, the kennedy era, and before that. he firmly believed that the african national congress was a terrorist organization, that nelson mandela was a terrorist. he did not believe those people were groups with whom one could work. >> mendelson did not forget his lack of support. but george wh bush welcomed nelson mandela to any white house for the first time. >> mr. mandela in the eyes of million around the world you stand against apartheid, against a system that bases the rights and freedoms of citizenship on the basis of one's skin. that is repugnant to the ideals we in america hold so dear. >> reporter: he calls m

simply shows that in fact any man can do it and i think every man should be a fighter hunter that's how nature made us. fighting as a double edged sword. or. i don't want to fight i'm through with it. i never even thought about following a fighting career. so when people started. west shipping me. i began to live up to that cult image that. there are only two possible outcomes to this situation. you can be successful in everything works out well it's a happy ending you have to go to miami and it's all about fancy cars and hot chicks . the other option when you die in the ring. why is the price of gold so high. demand global demand do you think oldest money. know the value of the only place we have to live of the water that we need to survive it's not compared to bill i mean gold we're not going to eat gold we're not going to bait with gold. we're not going to drink what clearly what amal is and is in a desperate economic situation absolutely right what we're wrong to do is say therefore any kind of economic development from the outside is going to be a benefit their only purpose is to e

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that may be the last time anybody saw this man. let me show you video we took 15 minutes ago as fire investigators take their first look inside the mobile home. its located in casa elle han doctor mobile home park. people started calling 911 shortly after 2:00 this morning as smoke and flames could be seen from the freeway. fire crews responded to a fully engulfed mobile home. now the crews have put the fire out. they are trying to locate the man that lives here. they are in his 70s and don't have a cell phone number to reach him. >> we are not sure about the occupant. >> reporter: the neighbor i spoke with said he helped the man start his car so he could go to work. he also said that the man may have had a daughter living with him but that daughter moved out about a month ago. so again fire investigators still trying to locate him and they just investigators just got the first chance to step inside the building so they are still working to determine wham caused this -- determine what caused this fire. too early to say wham caused

a man in some respects is on this mt.f great human beings was so human and everybody who met him said the same thing. the shot of him wearing a yankees' hat is so great. i'm a mets fan. i will forgive him for that but so human mr. he tries to connect with people. he said i have discovered the secret. i have walked this long walk to freedom and i'm not perfect. i have made a lot of mistakes but he said i discovered for every hill you climb there are more hills to climb. in all that he achieved he knew because south africa wasn't where he wanted it to be there was more to achieve in his lifetime. >> where do you start with all of these accolades for him. just amazing. >>> coming up we continue to remember the legacy of nelson mandela. >>> and nelson mandela's impact on popular culture. a look at the movies he inspired and stars who played him. you are watching "world news now." >>> welcome back. we are joined by lana zak who recently spent time in south africa after mandela fell ill. >> you spoke to mandela's daughter recen

the equality of man. a partner of o brotherhood, of humanity and unity of peoples until his last days. that we were blessed to be associated with this amazing icon, and to have the role of continuing his legacy is the most precious right we shall be bestowed upon us all. as we lift our eyes to the dawn of the new era, without a madiba we hope you will join us with all passion, prayer, support demonstrated in every street corner of this beautiful land, and in far-flung regions of the world. this university show of unity is a true reflection of all that madibaba stood for. justice, unity of all mankind, let us pledge to keep madiba's dream alive in the way in which we honor the humanity in each other, in the way in which we liveac out the humanity to each other and in the way in which we raise -- in this regard we, the mandela family, enter into a solemn covenant with you the people of ourly country, africa citizens of the world, that we will recommit ourselves to the values and the ideals madiba stood for.

holiday the long awaited follow up to nine hundred ninety nine best man best man holiday will be in theaters november fifteenth thankful we talk about that so about the butler how did you get that part in that great that's a civil rights movie for all time what's funny about that i was chasing that film for six years laura ziskin you know head uphill heads ups used to head up stand up to cancer who just lost the battle this year to last year to it and she had that script and we were campaigning for it for a long time you want to play this i want to play the butler and then when lee got it six years later. he wanted me to play the butler. you know when he teamed up with oprah and it was just hard to make the age difference work and so i knew when they mentioned when they had forest come in i was like this is going to go to forcibly cause me is like look it's like look rather you know i don't know what to do i want you in this movie but i don't have anything left for you except this one little bitty character which i wouldn't want to offend you with it you know it's a guy who lives ne

this is the man that we have come to say farewell to, a man who has built our nation. in many ways, we are here today to tell madiba that his long walk is over, that he can finally rest, that he can enjoy the view of our beautiful country of south africa, a view he discovered when he began working the hills of his birthpla birthplace. his long work is over, but ours is only beginning. and with that, as we walk down memory lane, i would like us now to do what he would have wanted us to do. that is to open this memorial service with an interfaith opening prayer. i would like to call upon chief rabbi warren, the hindu faith, of the muslim faith and archbishop of the christian faith to come and give us opening prayers on an interfaith basis. please go ahead, chief rabbi warren. >> god and king who is full of compassion, god of the spirits of all flesh in whose hands are the souls of the living and the dead, receive we beseech you in your great loving kindness, nelson mandela who has been gathered unto his people. remember him for the righteousness which he has done. rememb

best man best man holiday will be in theaters november fifteenth thankful we talk about that so about the butler how did you get that part in that great that's a civil rights movie for all time what's funny about that i was chasing that film for six years laura ziskin you know head uphill heads ups used to head up stand up to cancer who just lost the battle this year to last year to it and she had that script and we were campaigning for it for a long time you want to play that i want to play the butler and then when lee got it six years later lee wanted me to play the butler you know and he teamed me up with oprah and it was just. to make the age difference work and so i knew when they mentioned when they have forced come in i was like this is going to go to forcibly cause me is like look it's like look rather and i don't know what to do i want you in this movie but i don't have anything left for you except this one little bitty character which i wouldn't want to offend you with it you know it's a guy who lives next door to her and us having an affair with her and he's like but you're

would the man survived? could the man survived? his answer strengthened men and women around the world. >> president obama today quoted nelson mandela, describing himself as a sinner, he keeps on trying. is it important for us not to hide to somem to kind of secular sainthood? >> it is very dangerous to elevate any human being higher highere human brain -- than a human being. young people than are discouraged from trying. they will say this is mr. king or nelson mandela or mahatma gandhi -- what's the point of me trying to be that? i'm just a normal person. >> can i ask you about your memories of the man? >> i have always been impressed with his kindness. he did not indulge rudeness or bad manners, but he was very kind and understood that people can change. will not forget you. we will not dishonor you. we will remember and be glad that you lived among us, that you taught us, and that you loved us. >> maia angelou -- maya angelou there on the day the world paused to remember a great man. >> make sense of international news at bbc.c

it means to me that he was man of people, and man of the world. >> mandela means very much a brave andful man, and he is a here you of south africa. >> let's look at the schedule of events to say fairwell to mandela. the public will be able to pay their respects to him where he will lie in state for three days. his body will later be transported to his hometown where his funeral burial will take place. >>> the french president is headed to the central african republic where french soldiers were killed in a battle. hundreds of people were killed there last week. the country was plunged into chaos in march when selica rebels seized power in a coup. >> reporter: here on the streets things are extremely tense. we have seen no french patrols. we have seen a few african union forces, mainly from chat. there are some civilians out on the treat -- street as well. two french forces were killed here monday night. the french were supposed to be disarming selica forces as well as other armed fighters, but what we have seen are various pickups full of armed selica men driving past. now we understan

is a free man and is in beijing.wman was deported for humanitarian reasons. >>> a jump in construction and manufacturing jobs helped bring the unemployment rate down to seven%. seven percent. >> the economy gained 200 new positions last month. >>> the new numbers show problems with the healthcare exchange website

it was also the man himself. he was a quiet man in many ways, but with great power to influence. a father of six who is also a father of a nation, a country, and a philosophy. he was born in 1918 in a small village of the eastern cape of south africa. his work against apartheid policies grew in the coming years. in 1963, he was put on trial for plotting to overthrow the government with pilots. he said at the trial, i have cherished the ideal of a democratic and free society in which all persons live together in harmony and with equal opportunities. it is an ideal which i hope to live for and to achieve. but if i need be, it is an ideal for which i am prepared to die. after he stepped down as president, he worked tirelessly to promote his agenda of equality. he wanted to engage in quiet reflection. he is survived by his wife, graca machel, and three children. joining me now is a close friend of mandela's. rick stengel was the author of "long walk to freedom." we will also be joined by david dinkins. you knew him 25 years. godfather to your daughter. >> 22 years. >> tell me how the

i was like, man, come help me, man, because it can get ugly around here.cause the dispatcher is questioning me how a person got into my house. she's like, so you let him in? i'm like, no, i didn't let him in. >> you guys know him? >> the cousins wait with the man hoping the police will arrive. but after nearly an hour, they lose their patience. >> no, you got to go this way, dude. >> i couldn't hang on to him all night. it's like, now i'm keeping him captive. it's not my job to sit here and babysit all night. it's probably, like, 4:00 in the morning now. i have to let him go. so that's what happened. he just wandered off into the night and disappeared. all right, dude. take off, dude. >> the unidentified man and rubio don't cross paths again. rubio vows to take extra precautions in the future to avoid another scary and potentially dangerous situation like this one. >> i must have left the door open and he just wandered in there like a drunk or whatever he was on. i lock it now every day. even if i live across the street, it's still locked because i don't w

to achieve more than could be expected of any man. today he's gone home and we've lost one of the most influential, courageous and profoundly good human beings that any of us will share time with on this earth. he no longer belongs to us. he belongs to the ages. through his fierce dignity and unbending welfare sacrificing his owning live for the freedom of others, madiba, sacrificed, for others, in the belief that human beings can change for the better, reconcile those who jailed him, set an example that all humanity should aspire to where in the lives of nations or our own personal lives. and the fact that he did it all with grace and with humor and ability to acknowledge his own impeimperfections, only makes te man more remarkable. he set once, i'm not a saint, unless you consider a saint a sinner who keeps on trying. i'm one of the countless millions who draw inspiration from nelso nelson mandela's lif. my very first political action, the very first thing i ever did that involved an issue or policy or politics was a protest against

listen to this. >> jesus was a man. he was human. he was not a white man. he was not a black man. he came from that part of the world that touches africa and asia and europe and he probably had a brown skin. christianity is not a white man's religion and don't let anybody ever tell you it's white or black. chris belongs to all people. he belongs to the whole world. >> it's incredible watching your father in action like that. he sends such a far-reaching and long-term effect on the american people, just as mandela did on the south africans. do you see anybody who is anywhere near the mantle of your father to take up that kind of spiritual leadership in america? >> i don't know. there is great preachers in this country and great men of god and i'm sure god will raise up. my father, this is not a position my father tried to obtain. it wasn't something he lobbied for or worked for. it's something god did. if you ever, piers, see a turtle on a fence post, you'll know that turtle did not get there by himself and my father always felt he was somewhat of a turtle on a fence post. he reali

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. >> nelson mandela was a smart man, a trained man, an educated man and he also stressed the need for that. you can't know what's right unless you know what's wrong. so you can't be in a position to demand what's right before you can criticize what's wrong. so he is staying on top of that. he also learned the best way to overcome your enemy is to be smarter. the best way to unite your forces is to be able to give credit where it belongs. he would say he served with me as well as in prison. steve, he did not to go prison because he was killed. but the sacrifices he made. so mandela was able to unite the forces of good wherever they were. whether it was in the other places, in the urban dwellings of johannesburg or capetown. he was able to speak to the high and the low. to let them know it was not just for a few but for all. and did he so not looking out for anything for himself but sharing with others. he is a moral for us, the likes of which we will have a very difficult time seeing a replacement any time soon. >> a lot of people are too young to remember the bitter debate in the 1990

just a black man, a black man who was tremendously able person with stature, that you look up to. then i had a request for a meeting with oliver, /whofts the head of the amc, nelson mandela's organization. the anc was con troversial. it had its dealings with moscow. lots of antagonism towards them and the congress of the united states. the cia had a good working with relationship with the south african intelligence, but i thought i should meet with him because, you know, you begin to feel the cracks, and this is the organization that represents most of the people of south africa so we should have a working relationship if we can. i checked it out with president reagan, he gave me the green /hraoeupgt light and i had the meeting. it was a good meeting, went on for an hour or so. we were both candid, i said some of our reservations, he said some of his things. we talked about some common things. he turned out to be a good guy, we had a good time together. next day a whole lot of senators and congressmen called for my resignation. it was a huge indignation. i'm sure fanned a little b

have to shave a living man to this he could become a headdress maybe. i could already feel it's going to be awesome. even i didn't expect it to be so cool. it's great. this is wonderful. well if you want we can trim the side a bit i can cut hair. come here and hang out for a while. but. other people. only use this as a last resort. to take a moment. to read. maybe when i need to wash. everybody. it was nice of the guys to give me this. i was thinking of ending my sports career and everything. i have to wear this outfit in competitions. as a rule. but this time i slept like a log someone managed to steal my rucksack from underneath my head. pretty much had my whole life and my medals. my famous red shorts with the black. shorts. and a special champion for you lee. i think caps are good on me. from time to fight for money. to cash to pay off my debts. i decided to visit. with my fans. this goes the club today we're going to practice striking perfect. maybe we can do some. easy to get a good beating from the youngsters. go work work focus come on. both of

a celebration for the man himself. this was a man who has an immense amount of energy. people are trying to capture that as they say good-bye to him. we have seen the singing, dancing and the tears. >> it's an extraordinary setting as we watch the pictures. i can't imagine there's been a funeral like this one in south africa on his home turf. the pomp and ceremony and that mix with the tribal influences. things that happen like the killing of the beast and if that beast bellows it's a good sign he's being welcomed into the afterlife. and the gun salute. >> it's a very careful balance that has to be maintained. it's also reflective of the man himself who was state president