he'll never be bill clinton, as bill maraniss said, but he's grown politically and learned that whener feel special. >> and i think he's learned from stumbling in that regard as well. i did see him cry one time on the campaign trail in 2008, and that was right after his grandmother died, the day before the election of 2008, that was the first time i saw him cry. and then we never saw him cry again until the day before election 2012, when he was in iowa. >> and with his re-election, i think there's no doubt he's much more self-confident right now about where he stands and where he's going. >> and just more comfortable being who he is behind the stage, behind the scenes, in front of the cameras and having those stories. and i think jessica's exactly right. i think out of caution, he didn't talk a lot about not having a father, for example, although he did talk about it occasionally on father's day. he would allude to it, but now he's much more open, because he doesn't have anything to lose because of his own future political prospects. >> it's nice to see that. >> and it works. >> jake