on that night five months ago marcio tried to knock on may's aunt's door.e this. it should never have happened in the first place. yeah, it shouldn't have, it shouldn't have. yeah, it's very painful. i know, i know. especially that we were miles apart from her. of course, because you are in the philippines. yeah. i really don't know what happened to her. what she's doing, actually. i presume she's sleeping when it happened. yeah, i don't think she suffered. it would have been on this side, you see where the scaffolding is up. she would have been exactly where those poles are. yeah. on that side of the building. 0k, 0k. i'm very happy that your family is safe. thank you. unfortunately we just couldn't take everybody out. yes, we understand. at least i think she is watching over us. definitely, definitely. she is watching over us, yes. but it is kind of painful. too many emotions. we have been through that quite a few times now. it never gets easier. yes, it doesn't. yeah, i agree. you just learn how to control it better. yeah. they are united in grief. marci