and, by the way, i'm looking for the female mark zucker burg or bill gates. [laughter] zuckerberg.i want to know, if any of you know that person, i want to see the first woman that creates some new technology that changes how we do everything. i think that's the next frontier we need to be looking for. >> absolutely. >> and i have one more question. i think we have time for one more question. if anyone else -- oh, great. please, go ahead. >> it's a question for both of you. dr. connie, you came from very humble beginnings. i wanted to know your, your interest and desire to escalate yourself. did it come from a parent? and then you also had a conflicting message which was you're never going to be quite good enough. and so i kind of want to know where that came from. >> you know -- >> and then a question for gloria, i guess i'd like to know what tape was in your head that you had to work against. >> it's interesting, both my parents, my father was a navy steward and joined as a servant class, my mother was a dentist who went to dental school in the philippines in the 1950s and very w