through it all marler facebooked 10-12 hours a day. she shared pictures and notices of services and fund-raisers. >> thank you so much is what i say. because i do appreciate all the different benefits going op. >> like others in this valley. she'll try to balance what was lost and what is ahead. >> we keep on going. you know, we just - there'll always be memorials. once a year there'll be a memorial. we go the best we can. >> we met marler first, just a couple of days after the slide hit, 3.5 weeks ago, and she told me that she hadn't cried, that it wasn't time to cry. i asked her when we interviewed her about this, if she cried. she said "no, not time, tears have not come", maybe at some point she'll sit with a friend, go back over what has been lost, and maybe then the tears will come. although she didn't get a chance to speak to the president, she was glad he was here and keep the focus on the needs that the community will face in coming years. >> did we get a sense of the president's reaction to what he saw on marine one? >> we did