will never, i will never believe that. >> kathy was in the only one getting the brush off from martha annwhen she eventually got married her best friend debbie would be the maid of honor? at the monthly corvette club -- debbie got a surprise when she asked new members to stand. all of a sudden i hear this, hi, my name is chuck kasmeryk we've bought a new addition corvette. >> hang on a second -- when he got up in the back that day, and he said i'm check this is my wife, this is the first you knew they were married? >> this was how i found out. >> you must have been asleep that day when you are made of honor? >> i must have. >> so i said chuck, you know, actually i was kind of hurt. >> not surprised. >> i said, you know, when did you all get married? >> oh, we went on a cruise and we got married on the beach down in some island. >> i said, wow. you know, i'm happy for you. >> and it still hurt but i am happy for you. >> rude awakening, but nothing compared to the morning early in 2008, soon after chuck gave his speech to a group of students eager to hear about his many and heroic combat ex