and martin garbus, her attorney.eard about the incident with a police officer, were you seeing him then? >> i met him in 2007. we started -- >> larry: that was years before? >> we started seeing each other in 2007. >> larry: you knew that story? >> you know what, i knew a little bit about it. >> larry: did you talk to him about it? >> obviously. >> larry: what did he say about the comments and jews and blacks. he said look, everybody i work with is jewish. >> he denies having made those statements, so if he's quoted, he say, i never said it. >> yeah, he said there was an actor who they recorded, i've never heard those, an actor who sounded like him. >> larry: so he said he never made an antigay remarks, antiblack remarks, antijewish? >> pretty much denied everything. it's only when i became pregnant and i felt like he had me, like he had complete control over me. he started to show his true self. but in the beginning of the relationship, he said there's a dark side of me. >> larry: he said that? >> yes. i don't want

with us, martin garbus, who's father lives in moscow, her father was a russian war hero in the world war ii against the nazis. how did you meet? >> we were introduced by a mutual friend and there were cards on a table. and the friend took my card and put his cell phone number on my card and so mel called me a couple of weeks later. >> larry: were you playing piano when you met him? >> i was just at the dining table in the restaurant. >> larry: so, he called you? >> yeah, he did. >> larry: and you knew he was married, right? >> yes, i did know he was married, but for nine months, we were just riding together. we hardly saw each other. it was like a friendship thing. >> larry: so no adultery. >> then he explained to me that he was unhappy for many years and that he was in love, actually. >> larry: and a romance budded. do you ever feel, oxon, i forgot your mike. do you ever feel you caused the break-up? >> he explained to me that it was not the reason they separated. since 2006 for sure and they were very unhappy prior to that. >> larry: so, you felt no guilt. >> i did not because he r

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