mary abbajay is here and she calls it the favor bank. mary abbajay, welcome. you say it is very important to have a favor b bank and you consnstantly need to be replenishing it so when it is time to draw down on the capital, you are ready. >> the most important thing is you have to gigive to get. creaeating your own favor bankns about doing things for other people. you have to build your social capital. you have to have more deposits and widrawals. you have to have some favors before you start drawing down. >> you cannot go into it with the mindset of doing it to withdraw favors later.r. you have to do it because you are driven by that. >> youou have to give them authentically and because you want to help other peopl >>e realisti specific, and consider it. don't ask for too much and make it easy for the ver give. >> once you have capital in your bank and you're going to withdraw asking favors, save up for what you're asking for. if i call you up and say i am looking for a new job and i need your help, tt is not good. i need to say i am thinking about a job in