the day where justice was brought to her late husband, and the conviction for her lover was mary ann mcfarlandf mary ann we're to accept that he committed this crime, she admitted that she would hold herself morally responsible. so, some people decide, i'm not gonna accept reality unless it absolutely punches me in the face. i guess, we didn't punch hard enough. >> reality for janos kulcsar, the man she loved, the man convicted of murdering her husband, was the almost certain prospects of spending the rest of his days in prison. in january 2012, janos was sentenced to 26 years to life. just about the same amount of time he spent with mary ann. occasionally, you'll still find gary macfarlane at the beach where his father archie brought him to surf. he thinks about father and mother. and forgiveness. the lesson gary is still learning, from archie mcfarland. >> i still love my mother. i don't harbor bitterness or resentment, there are tons of questions you'd love to ask and get answers to, but, i am not in a position, nor in my opinion, is anyone in the position to understand what is going on in