amongst the sprawling cities of southern california. >> even as a baby, she was a good baby. >> mary bennett is cathy's mother. >> she was always happy, always running, and always very loud and always smiling. >> that radiant smile shined everywhere she went. >> cathy was energetic, loved to laugh. >> younger brother mari and the baby, debbie. tina was the eldest. she watched as cathy excelled in school. >> cathy was compensational. cathy made her own way. she didn't follow a role model. >> nobody guide her, and nobody pushing her. >> exactly. she had her own drive. >> she used to tell her younger sister you had to leave your mark in this world so that people would remember you when you moved on. >> you teach her that? >> no, that was just her. >> that's a -- >> beautiful, smart, and social and popular. >> you knew more about her dating life than maybe your mom ask dad did. >> yes. i believe to some extent, yes. >> cathy dated a few guys in high school, but no one she was terribly stuck on. and then in 1994 out of high school and a young woman of 20 cathy started to see a boy named albert. a