. >> my name is mary helen. i'm the mother of 12 children and i loved each one of them. i was born august 19, 1924, in north carolina. the south was always hard on blacks. they didn't want to feel that you were equal with them. but i always felt like i was as good as anybody else. i had no inferior complex at all. in fact i was a little arrogant. i thought i could do anything. ♪ >> in high school, we were -- i think we were in the -- what was it -- the tenth grade. she was so kind and so nice, you know. i proposed to her in a letter. i wrote her a letter. i was in new york and asked her if she would marry me and she wrote me back and said "yes." ♪ this one here, this is when we lived in lived on paris street and everyone was very, very young. that's george, carla, quinn. >> it started about ten years ago. i try not to show it, but i take it very hard. >> what are we doing today honey? >> we're going to church today. we'll be at church. why should a person like her, you know, have to go through that? ♪ knowing the type of person she was, she -- [ crying ] -- she was alway