mary margaret farren is increasingly worried about her husband's tantrums and explosive anger. j. hael farren had risen to the highest levels of government. negotiating international trade agreements at the commerce department, representing the president on legal matters, general counsel at xerox. his career, a brilliant success. but his marriage, a miserable failure. what was the final straw where you said, "that's it. i have to file divorce papers?" >> our older daughter was growing up and, challenging him but then, also, feeling his rage. starting to see her take the same strategies that i would to avoid triggering his rage just broke my heart. >> reporter: after she has him served with divorce papers, farren talks mary margaret into coming home with the girls. >> i did fear that he would slap me or push me or do something. >> reporter: you didn't think your life was going to be in danger? >> i thought i could manage it. >> reporter: but, she has an escape plan. i know that when you went back home, you were strategic. you thought, just in case things don't go well, you put your