jean carroll and matthew hussey, host of "love life" with matthew hussey. >> we love them both. >> yesdy? >> ready. >> let's get ready. caitlin is our first person. she wrote in a letter to us, how do i deal with my husband's ex and her family as she is unfortunately my stepkids' mother. they're giving us a rough time. >> the most vague question anyone ever heard. here's the thing, you can't control that situation. and that's why it is inherently scary, because, a, you feel like you're on the outside of it, and, b, you can't control it. this is one of those situations in life where it actually pays to be the strong silent type. you have to kind of be the one who keeps a low profile. don't overcommunicate with those guys and instead of focusing on how he's performing, focus on how you're investing in the situation with him. in other words, if you're being strong for him -- >> be supportive. >> you're being supportive, you're encouraging him, spend time with the kids, do what you got to do, he'll know your his real teammate. >> whatever makes the child happy. what keeps this child happy

. >> our friend matthew hussey and e. jean carroll. not a crazier duo. >> it is fireworks all the time. a little happy birthday to cinnamon lee, remember the puppy that when you got blake -- >> yes. >> here is cinnamon lee turning 1 year old yesterday. >> oh, my gosh. you remember how little cinnamon lee was back in the day? that's him now? >> yes. >> look how darling he is. >> so cute. i remember when you held him in your hand -- >> and gave him to my friend collin, yeah. that was cute. >> the cutest little dog. >> and now this is going to upset hoda very much. there has been a backlash. people are taking umbrage now to the bare bikini line. bad news because landing strips is seen their day apparently and is seems like the brazilian is taking the back seat to the fuller look or some of it just call it tending your garden. >> you know what, it is because the show "girls," which is a trend setter for everything. on "girls," everybody is naked, they have been flashing a fuller downstairs. >> yes. >> and what do the rest of us do? because

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