maxie phelps is one of our members who was on the marines, he was before the media today and the last few days, and i'm taking my boyfriend to my christmas party tomorrow, and i think that, you know, it's the reason that that's kind of the measure i've been using to see, you know, how successful it's been, and, you know, i think a wide majority are doing that. so i think that it really has been just that smooth. i mean, i really think it has. >> agreed? [laughter] >> seems like -- [inaudible] someone comes out to everybody in their unit, and there are some that are surprised, but for the most part everyone will, you know, that's great, you're still a great airman or a great soldier, marine, coast guard. and it's just we haven't heard a lot of negative experiences, not that those don't exist or those won't exist in the future. but on the whole it's just been, so far it's been very smooth, and the reason why people are so skeptical of that is that leading up to repeal a lot of the argument against don't ask, don't tell repeal was it will disrupt unit cohesion. so if things are going so