maybee that's not a disorder and i can figure out how to navigate the world that wasn't again built for. i saw you doing that over and over again and that's what makes this book so successful and among other things you are talking from thatth perspective not just from the outside. >> thank you. representation is huge and that's also like a why your issue i want to see hollywood and media and film and stories on wider screen that's important. >> you said earlier in case maybe we can get to a couple more questions. >> i can take a few more. >> i also want to say what melody just said. i know we talked about this before we went live but i loved this book. it might be one of my favorite books of all kind. i never felt so understood and validated before i had this sense that so often happens when you read these books and they are written by professionals in the field that don't have the lived experience. they just have the academic background they know what this is like because when you are divergent and you don't know that you are, there's a tendency to feel lost and misunderstood and you d

maybee we would have books but istill, abdo, we don't remembea single one, i can maybe remember one orumbers that are old phone numbers like that i grew up with. similarly okay are we kind of getting lazy about some types of memory and is that a little bit worse, would be better if we actually exercise that part of her memory a little bit more. lisa: i love this question you and i are both all enough that i still remember all my childhood friends phone numbers. and you and i literally don't know my two youngest kids phone numbers,t like i don't know what they are. that just seems like bad parenting right there. [laughter]r] david: yes it does uptight about myself. lisa: here's a question i would ask about you, a a lot of people immediatelyll assume that this s just bad for me like i should be memorizing these because igs usd to memorize alle kinds of things like phone numbers. better for what. are you going to improve your ability to remember other things if you memorize a dozen phone numbers. no. are you going to improve your ability to remember details of the documentary film you wat