the two all the time and i would challenge people to consider the difference if there is one now melania laugh it is have to ask him and obviously you're on t.v. talking about this so it's not something you're you're ashamed of missing your family knows that you tried to go seeking an arrangement with some with an older richer man yes definitely i've always been pretty forthright about what i you know in my life and my beliefs and my convictions and i've never shied away from sharing that with my parents or anyone else quite frankly great well we thank you for for sharing your experience with us too and it's definitely a very entertaining piece too to read about your experiences there in vanity fair and it looks like a lot of other people are trying that out to melanie thanks for joining us tonight thank you a lot. also becomes a thing for the war in afghanistan is really only going on further to copulate here more on that one told time award and then happy hour buyer's remorse but hillary clinton made a better president plus all eyes are on michele bachmann that newsweek cover back in j