the winner of the grab of randomly selected by closing my eyes and scrolling, melanie madden.if you could privately message me on this chat your mailing address, i will pass that on to kate. she will get your gift certificate. >>. >> yes she's back. >> if i could i want to answer one more question i sought in the chat and it was a great question i would love to address from naomi who is another author it was wonderful and talks about i knowledge privilege in the book and how the burdens of caregiving fall not just women but women of color and more marginalized groups and i would love to address that because the research really shows that is very much the case and that can fall into ways. that marginalized families with less access to care and resources are disproportionately economically harmed by the difficult challenges of caregiving capable of jobs where they have to be present. essential workers are much less likely to juggle the demands of caregiving with their work life and more likely to lose employment. and paid care work with the undervaluing care of all kinds like wo