alyssa spent half her time with ben and melissa, the other half with her birth mom, ben's ex- wife, don. and above all, what ben really wanted was to have his little girl permanently. >> he never thought that he could have his daughter, and i was like, yeah, you can. >> and he did. he won custody. >> it was him and his daughter, and that is what he always wanted. >> melissa's teenage brother craig moved in. then winter came. and of every 20th, 2008, the moon rose full over the carson valley. after dinner, then, melissa, her teenage brother, greg, and little alyssa sat in the den to watch a movie. melissa remembers falling asleep on the couch and waking up with a start. >> it was like 230 in the morning, and i was like, oh, i'm not late. so i went and got into bed. >> crawled into bed, she said. moonlight on the covers, warmth inside. >> an hour later is when i was woke up by the smell and a loud noise. my ears were ringing. at first i thought i was dreaming. >> a smell? >> yeah, it was a smell. a gunpowder smell. >> as she told it, she saw by the light of the moon he had appear to slept