melissa geller was a braidesmai. >> it was a great day, it was. >> there was something missing, joseph'sother susan remembered summer eastside of the family was absent sglt nig. >> the night before the wedding summer said she called them and told them don't come. >> i know she wasn't super close with her family. >> something that always concerned joseph's mother. >> i have asked joey like, you know, what is going on? why can't we all get together and this and that? i always felt like i was brushed off as if there is something going on. >> but the mcstay's family's troubles weren't exclusive to summer eastside of the family. there were other issues, joseph's past. >> i know summer was very, very jealous of, you know, obviously the first wife. >> in his early 20s, joseph married a woman named heather. they had a son together. >> she was the love of his life and when they broke up, it just broke his heart. >> heather and joseph's romance broke down after six years of marriage. she filed for divorce in august of 1998 siting irreconcilable differences. >> he would have done everything and any