not saying that men can't do it. i'm just saying that if we look out at the numbers, it's still mostly women. so i would advocate flexibility for both parents. >> in your case, former dean of woodrow wilson at princeton, a professor, there are both a lot of women and a lot of men who would not have made the choice that you made to work at the highest level of the government, particularly in foreign service and all of the hours that that requires, in a city that's not your own. i mean that's true, right in so that exacerbated your struggles. >> although here is exactly part of the disparity. frequently, but not always, but very frequently when the man goes to washington, his wife comes, too, and moves the kids. i do not know a single woman who is commuting to washington where the husband moved and moved the kids. i knew a number of women who said as i did, my kids are rooted in school they're rooted in a community. and honestly, if we move, they're going to uproot them. my husband's career is going to be uprooted. bet

showing that we are as much as the men. maybe we first tried to look at men to see that we are equals. after that, it was one that would then it can be as mature, strong or whatever, than a man. but we also see the attribute of imagery, of seduction, which was exactly what was into it in madonna. >> so we can all understand. when you saw madonna in her appointed course it, this was not the first time you had seen womens' underwear -- in her pointed corset, this was not the first emmy had seen women's underwear. you saw it with your grandmother and the work she did. isn't there a teddy bear in bastardi -- in the story? >> the teddy bear was there. [unintelligible] for a little boy, no, you cannot have a doll. you have to have a train. i was not traumatized by the train. maybe why do not drive. but also like a teddy bear. i cannot put it in a dress. i cut bras with newspaper or a magazine and would use pins to make that bra. to me, it was like the silhouettes as of may be on the tv. we saw a lot of movies. so i tried to recon

not to make ourselves, accommodate ourselves to men at their worst, but that both men and women could learn how to do better together. thank you. [appause] [applause] [applause] [applause] >> i am sure you must have questions. >> yes, the lady in blue? >> my name is suzanne kelly and i am from this university and i want to thank you for being here. my question is. okay, my question is in today's society, i noticed a lot of couples who get engaged. they wait for years before they get married. do you think it is healthier once you find that person and you know that you want to get married, do you go ahead and jump into that relationship and go for the ride knackered you waited out until it is the perfect time to get married >> jane austen makes fun of the cool shade of her day. long engagements are terrible. she is all about balance. i think maybe she might think that our engagements today are bizarrely long. i think you put your finger right on part of the problem when he said, waiting for everything to be perfect. in a certain sense, finding love and commitment with the right person i

i was about to say, she knows manly men. that's why she chose me. >> why did she leave the manliest city in america to come to new jersey and marry you? >> because she got the manliest man but in the most cultured city. >> you cleaned that up good. >> saved it. >> that was nice. >> all right. >> this next story is going to upset a lot of people, we think. in germany, this mayor decided that women are not good parkers and they can't park their cars well. so this mayor decided that the trickiest spots he was giving just to men. there's actually a symbol, a male symbol. >> male-only parking lots. >> look at him smiling and pointing. >> i say taze him and then vote him out. >> he says it's too complicated for women to learn to park in those spots. just for men. >> too many angles and too close to the cement pillars and garages. >> they say the spaces for women are wider, well lit and closer to the exit. >> stop laughing. what is wrong with them? >> we're just so pathetic. >> what is wrong with that? >> you guys think that's funn

and men they were. and men they considered. google books allows the word search of the book's 371 pages. there are 75 mentions of men. 55 of man. there are two mentions of women and one of woman. the first mention of women is by wesley kerr mitchell, the great economist and husband of radcliffe graduate lucy sprague mitchell who is the first dean of berkeley and the founder of the school. in the paper, she woke about liberty's need to be tempered by justice. quote, later revelations of the exploitation of child workers, of young persons and also of women led to further protective legislation. in this instance, women were classed with children as needing special state protection. now, the second mention of women came in the lecture, a professor corrado genie of the university of rome. he sought to promote a broader international understanding by suggesting relativism when it came to judging other societies. when's no conflict between the authority and the individual. and he gave the example, although outsiders may, quote, lament

fillers and botox use continue to grow in men up to 8% and 11% in men. what are driving these numbers? why are men considering going under the needle and the knife more frequently? >> it is really a surprise, especially in these economic times. but maybe a lot of it has to do with men that are working longer and people are retiring less. some people have retired and now moving back into the workforce. so, here in washington, we see a lot of men are doing this for professional reasons and competing with younger men, socially, professionally and they want to look the part. they want to look fit and they want to look appropriate. >> do you find it's more face or body? >> you know, there's a lot, more face, really. now, probably 30% of our patients are men and they're doing lesser things. they're not doing big facelifts or little necklifts and making their eyes look less tired. botox filler is great for men because there is no scars and men don't want scars and they don't want things they have to use makeup for although hair transplant, again, is really impr

none of it, men are accepting women and women are accepting men. okay. >> when you look back on your life as a journalist, what are you most proud of. >> what do i what? >> what are you most proud of in the work you did? >> i think some of the stories i did overseas. they seem to stay longer with me. and i was always proud when i got, well, because it was after i came back from overseas, i was assigned over at the pentagon. i liked some of those stories. but a story to me was a story. >> how do you mean? >> it was a good story, told something, and it met some need, maybe there was some -- i think of a medical campaign, we would go to medical services, go to medical headquarters, get what they were doing, and that would be -- that had no sex. lots of stories don't have sex and are worth covering. that's a joke. >> well, thanks. i think we'll wrap up for the day. >> all right. i hope it has been worthwhile for me. >> it has for me. >>> the purchasing power of gold, specified as a weight unit, for example, of any national currency was constant for a p

mostly amongst our young men who have sex with men of color p. it really just highlights the need for innovative new tools to really do research around these individuals. >> indc rates are high are there any solutions that came out of the study. >> i think we have really been collaborating to understand since this is the first, as you said landmark study as we move forward how can we look at structural interventions combine biomedical with truvada to highlight this issue. >> did you find a cultural stigma, perhaps attached with men of color having sex with men of color not using condoms in what is the over arching problem here. >> first of all it is what we identified in the study we take innovative community based culturally appropriate methods to address this epidemic in young men these methods we don't just have one tool we have many available we can look at structural, community based interventions and types of looking for access increasing access and improving access to health care, sexually trance mated, treatment to testing and -- transmit

but these men did the right and hon obl thing and you know men, the stock of men is down these days,n are not achieving, not graduating from school, not growing into man hood. there are a lot of statistics. but these three guys when it came to it, they measured up big time. >> yeah. and the role of men changing now, the perception of men changing. what the role should be. >> yes. >> especially now with the economy so many men out of jobs. it used to be the swashbuckling hero that, you know, would save the woman or you'd hear about the guy in church who was a deacon. >> that's right. >> this wasn't church as you said to me it wasn't church. they weren't boy scouts. they were just every day guys going to the movies. >> yeah. it wasn't the navy league meeting or the bible study or the eagle scouts. this was a midnight showing of the movie. these were regular, average, american guys. mcginn and his girlfriend met because they were both working at target in ohio. these are stories of people, every day people, every day men, every day americans. at a time when people are wondering and writ

it may be a minor problem for some men. it can be 100% for others. >> glad we did this story, thank you for being with us. >>> when we come back, what happened on the sun today and now the wait for the effects to arrive here on earth. i'm a native californian. times are tough. our state's going through a tough time. but we can fix it. ♪ chevron's been here in california for 133 years. we work hard. we support 1 in 200 jobs in the state. we support each other. and we spent over $450 million dollars with local small businesses last year. and, together, we can keep this... we're committed. ...the great state of california. committed to california. ♪ >>> this could end up being a big story. there was a very powerful solar flare today, an eruption on the surface of the sunday. the effects are now traveling towards us at anywhere between 1 and 5 million miles an hour. at that rate it's between one and three days away from us. now, like other solar flares, it is likely to affect some communications. on the upside, it will likely m

status men and women really ruled the society. we have to rethink how we conceive of the roles of women in the colonial period because there are these high status women. for example, in my most recent book i have a chapter on lady frances barkley, the wife of the governor of virginia at the time of bacon's rebellion. when her husband died, she became one of the most important political leaders of the colony. she became the focal point of the opposition to his successor and she successfully thwarted him and what he tried to do for 18 months. he actually died early of disease. he was replaced by a virginian, in a temporary position, and that virginian somehow knew how to placate her and so she lost -- you know, she lost her power at that point. but the guy who replaced her husband was just so frustrated. he kept sending letters to england saying, she's thwarting me at every turn and nobody said this is not what she should be doing. >> you mentioned your most recent book, separated by their sex, women in public and private and the co

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but i want to show that community and men. and i wanted to show the masculinity in the woman. >> humans and in passing just now farida kelfer, the was the beginning of the showing on the runway, models who were not typical of the models at the time. i am sorry to say that is this still true that we see so little diversity on the runways. it is really shameful. you have always thought their direct there are -- showing that there is a recurrence of the beauty from debra countries and origins. >> i was 11 or 12 in a school that was mixed. there were boys and girls. there was one girl i remember that was coming from the french colony. she was in algeria and came back to france. she had a very white skin. very, very white with speckles? >> freckles. >> freckles. more glamorous. glittering. but she was glamorous for me, sparkles -- no, freckles. sorry, i cannot say. [laughter] but she has beautiful red hair, light afro type but red hair. to me, i was like, oh, my god, she is so beautiful. for me, if i want to be friends with someone

triathletes, iron men. here they are just trainees hoping to be navy seals at least half of them will fail. any ordinary man can do dozens of sit ups, but how about hundreds of sit ups consecutively. let's check on these men. those who can keep going longer than the others as what is thought to be the toughest regimen in the world will become navy seals, it's that schism. - - i t's that simple. and if you try to grab a seconds rest that's all you get the trainer will suggest you do the bear crawl. >> hurry up get back there, bear crawl bird. >> bear crawl. >> the bear crawl is exhausting and ridiculous and humiliating and meant to make you remember that you need to shape up. in this exercise the feet are tied together and the hands are tied behind the back. the idea is to go to the surface. take a fresh of air, drop to the bottom and expel the air and back up for another breath. if you can do this for an hour it is assumed you can do it indefinitely. this kind of training is set to come in handy when a man

i look forward to it. >> 80% of newly created jobs are going to men.rlier than women. could it also be, and i don't know if this is true, but a theory, a possibility. it is still more common in our sue sigh tee where one parent works it is the man. possibly with high unemployment families have made a decision for the man to get back to work first and maybe this is why this is happening? >> that is a logical explanation. as long as it is not the employers who are deciding they should prioritize men over women with the assumption that they are the primary bread winner. that may be the way it is going. joe you said of women, quote when somebody gets uppity you have to put them in their place. >> that was a joke, andy. >> was it? >> yes. >> is it a joke you are single? >> i told you i am saving myself for you. i don't know how many times i have to say it it. >> if you keep saying it, maybe it will be funny one of these days. >> that's cool. >> move on. i don't want to stop you from asking legitimate questions to everybody else. >> i thought paul mccurio wa

and if men don't like it, fine. we don't like the way a lot of men look either. on the other hand, if men are or do find us attractive, we think that's great. so how do you juggle being in a sport that is really going to make you look more masculine because of the muscles and yet wanting to be attractive? >> it's interesting when the olympics takes place, a lot of emphasis is on all the sports on the athletes bodies and we talked about the gymnasts and how they are so small and the wrestlers and swimmers. what i'm more interested in is that this is the first summer olympics in which women are represented on every single team from every country that is participating, even from some of the most conservative islamic countries like saudi arabia. whether they are beautiful in one person's eyes or not. it's more important we are seeing women are encouraged to get out there. >> they are trying every conceivable sport. that's important. as this young woman is approaching retirement, she realizes not so much that -- and maybe there is a male wrestler, but she realizes tha

what did it mean that all the faculty were men? what can we learn from this statement by radcliffe alum. she wrote about her feelings that at radcliffe, she had somehow entered into that great company of scholars. you felt how init inially much there was to learn and how little you could ever attain to. it was humbling and inspiring. so, did the fact that the great company of scholars were all male deter her from becoming one herself? for better or worse, professors are models as well as inspirers. what does it mean to a woman student that there are no female models, did that make learning humbling rather than empowering? to harvard's faculty, all seemed normal. even as wise a man as psychologist gordon alport known as prejudice could write as lates a 140 to a woman academic who was seeking employment in the graduate school -- in the summer school, excuse me, "radcliffe," he stated, has to faculty and summer school, only harvard teachers teach there and harvard has no women teachers, silly, perhaps, but traditional and unexceptiona

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to women in my generation means having everything of men. in this generation it sounds like having perfection in a world where you can't have it. i would say having better choices and fair choices. >> eliot: that's hugely important distinction. nobody has it all. those who think they do

the stock of men is down these days. men are not achieving. into manhood, but these three guys -- >> and the role of men changing now, especially now that the economy, so many men out of job. i used to be the swash buckling hero that would save the women or a deacon in church. it wasn't church. they weren't boy scouts. just every day guys going to the movies. >> wasn't the navy league meeting or the cub scouts, the midnight showing of a movie. regular, average guys. mcgwinn and his girlfriend met, both working at target in ohio. every day americans. so at the time when people are wondering and writing books and asking questions, what's happening to men, boys growing into the kind of men we'd like to see, this is a very reassu reassuring thing. st. paul says think on those things. it was a dark night, but there was light that night brought by these men and these women will never forget and one wonders what kind of effect this will have on the lives of those women when they see what some men, a man, is capable of doing. >> as you were saying tha

these are grown men who want to dress up as babies or be pampered by mommy.is woman takes care of them as if they were little children. some of them, as you can see, are wearing little outfits. you fths tnotice the pacifiers, báták diapers, they were made forñgrown men, not little children. most people look at this as strange. let's face it. >> some people call it adult-baby regressive therapy and it is gaining more popularity. but for some people, they just like to do it. >> and as you can see, she does care for them by feeding them, putting them in high chairs and cribs and bibs and everything else. >> from what i've seen in this video, it is only men that she seems to be catering to. she takes care of everything, and that includes bathing them and whatever else they need done. >> goo-goo, ga-ga, gross. >>>ñis this for real? > >>> people are talking about circle of life. this week we're happy to welcome our friend matt back to the show. >> i feel refreshed. >> you must be refreshed because this week we've categorized some of the video. >> let's take a look.

they played a men's roles in our countries history. they all are haunted by how history will remember them. they have very good, strong, wide and broad agendas themselves. over and over again we saw them set the genocide and move past them and find a larger interest that brought them together to just work together. it is a very hard job. it is not java can be complained about whether they can whine about. they all fought them in many cases, much of their lives to get the job. once they do it, jefferson called it a splendid misery. truman used to refer to the white house is a great white shell. it is also a very difficult job. even once you do it successfully can be burdened by it. there are very few people they can talk to about it. the one thing that they want one another to know, is basically that i get it. you can call me. i understand and i get it and i know how hard it is. i will not give you a hard time. that is what we saw here, and that is what we saw all through history, and i think it is a model may be that many of us can tak

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>> hoping to take down the men who traffic them. >> well, come on. i'm in room 106. >> investigators in unmarked cars outside notify the team that their mark has arrived. >> we've got a female en route now. her arrival could be at any time. >> the undercover posing as the john greets the girl in room 106 as uniformed officers next door watch a monitor and wait for the "go" sign. as soon as this girl takes $100 for oral sex, the officers move in. >> got anything in your pockets? >> i'm not sure. >> do you have any identification? >> yeah. it's in my purse. >> the first girl claims she's an adult and she's not the underage girl in the ad. >> who's in that photo? >> i don't know. >> that's not you? >> no. >> why you use that name? >> because everybody does that. >> the girl also claims to work on her own even though officers outside have already arrested her pimp. >> we took him down. he had some marijuana and some other narcotic and a lot of cash money on him. >> officers hustle the girl out the back as the team quickly resets. >> i'm hoping this will

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women were not men and women -- the new normal. youthnisia, a wonderful activist who comes from a family of activists. when she went to school outside of our country she was denied access back in. she was able finally after the revolution to get back. she is a dynamo. >> alyse nelson is our guest, president and ceo of the organization by whole voices -- vital voices, and the book i have in my hand, "vital voices: the power of women leading change around the world." the forward is by hillary clinton and we will talk about this is bang clinton -- mrs. clanton when we are back. >> "this is america" is made possible by the national education association, the nation's largest advocate for children and public education. poongsan corporation, forging a higher global standard. the ctc foundation, afo communications, and the rotondaro family trust. >> alyse, beijing, 1995, a big u.n. conference, the fourth, i think they said, which was a women's conference. and you where there. how did you get to go there? you were in school at the time. >>

when new jobs are created, chances are men will get them. a major reason they've gone to men is the male-dominated industries are hiring again. men are also taking many jobs that once went to women. >>> well t-was a cold weekend at the box office as "ice age continental drift" slid into first place. the animated film is also very popular in europe but opened with solid numbers right here in the u.s. it sold $46 million, in tickets this weekend. "the amazing spider-man" was second and "ted" took 22 million for third place. >>> listen to this. a stop at starbucks may not be necessary. you may be able to make a cup of express sobriety in your car. fiat may over an express so maker in the fall. the gadget may not be available in u.s. where it may brew up trouble as another distraction. send a few text message, talk on the cell phone and make an espres espresso. >> i want that. >> maybe a mini bar too. while we're at it. >>> when we come back, the nba it star in trouble with the law. the weekend car wreck leading to serious charge. >>> and an all

three men were fishing near bakersville when one of the men slipped into the river, quickly found himselfble. his companions went in after him but one of them got stuck too. 53 larry i can't dow was swept away. he managed to grab on to rocks. >> you are looking at 40,000 pounds of pressure in a small area push go on your body. >> you could tell he was getting tired fighting that water. it is real tough. i reached out as far as i could and told him grab my arm. and we pulled him in, boat captain helped me. we grabbed him and pulled him into the boat. >> he is lucky to be alive. his life vest began to slip off and a rescue cable thrown to him snapped just before a boat could get to him. he was eventually pulled to safety, though. >>> just ahead, heavy rain brings flash flood warnings to parts of the washington area. we'll have the latest on the weekend weather. >>> we are on storm alerts at the 9 weather center. south of us in frees ricks burglary we have a severe -- in fredericksburg we have a severe warning. we have also a storm south of the beltway that could potentially become severe. b

young men who affected men equally vulnerable. en violence, when people have a new car near, wind depression and alcohol use and perhaps we can think about a lot of abuse going on. used for negative individuals. in africa passage can do a lot more than what we know. just a reminder we have many tools for hiv prevention. from 2007 reconfirm that it was very effective, date and not cause much. behavior intervention and more recently talked about prep. and treatment of prevention. we have a large tube to select from and we need to use it in combination. and the condition, it was very refreshing to get these results for extended follow up. and to see the result in kenya travel sites without any evidence of this protestation. finally have additional tools for package of intervention. we need to revisit and revise how to prioritize and focus resources of what is impact will. and get rid of policies that do not work. what we need to do is to target relative packages. delivering in combination the coverage facilities of affected intervent