. >> reporter: she draws on that experience when she portrays meredith gray, who also lost her mother. >> you're anything but ordinary, meredith. >> reporter: and it even shapes the way she parents. >> i'm probably a little overbearing. i tell my daughter how amazing she is probably a little too much. >> reporter: she and her husband, music producer chris ivory, are raising two children. >> i'm raising biracial kids. >> as am i. >> as are you. what, if any, special lesson do you impart to your children? >> i don't necessarily speak to my children about race. i just make sure that they have friends of all ethnicities. >> mommy? sex? >> how does your parenting differ from meredith's parenting? >> i don't think meredith is really a parent, i think meredith is like, i don't know, the kids are in the basement or something, i don't know where they are. couldn't be more different. >> in what way? i don't drink. very rarely. i might have a margarita once in a while. but yeah, i don't drink the way meredith --fy drank, i wouldn't drink out of the bottle. i think i'd pour it in a glass. >> you