they were born in the states so some of my friends the outcome could have been different and michael beecher friends those are slightly different reasons because they would have done well positioned to make a problem go away. and it kept me thinking about the incident many years after. >> host: you got off with just a fine and did not tell your mother and recently and had your parish priest help you out with a $400 and i am sure you are happy about this so tower records still does not exist. >> is the attribute. >> host: so talk about what happened when you get to princeton and you start realizing through having to do work study and all of the activities that led to your senior year of now what? want to study abroad and get a scholarship to oxford. how do you realize by the end of your senior year that this really is a problem and i need to get an immigration lawyer and start changing my status? >> that has unfolded in several stages. when i was admitted to princeton they gave a nice financial aid package but even that was not the most rate for word of issues because i was encouraged jews sp