effective immediately, joining us is michael griffin and his soon-to-be husband.t? >> that's correct. we've actually been dating for as -- well, a couple -- we started dating before i started working there 12 years ago, that summer, but we've been together since then. >> and the school had no problem with that? >> no. no, he had been to school events, school functions. in april, we sat at the table with the principal at a fund-raiser, an auction, and i think there were eight of us at the table, and vincent and i were two of them along with the principal and his wife. >> vincent, did you guys talk about how your relationship might at some way be in violation of the contract? with the school? >> well, we did the best that we can. we're just living our lives. and we try to be the best people that we can be. >> michael, what did you think -- when you found yourself in this conversation about the marriage license and your intention to get married, did you think, this is going to do it? this is going to get me fired? >> at that meeting or when i applied for the -- >> wh