and what michael knowles, yeah, that's his name michael knowles. and i think the most important thing for us to remember as trans people and then as people in general is that when we dehumanize people, we dehumanize ourselves. and i have to i want to say what brene brown says about dehumanization she defines dehumanization as moving a particular group of people into a place of moral exclusion. and she uses that phrase moral exclusion because we as human beings are not hardwired to harm each other. we we have empathy and we love each other. but if a group of people is rendered subhuman, the nazis use the term untermenschen subhuman then we can take away their rights then we can abuse them and commit violence against them. so we've seen the systematic dehumanization of trans people in the media and in policy proposals on both the left and the right, and now that we've been sufficiently dehumanized, now they have impunity to just take away all our rights stigmatize us, scapegoat us and so for me, as a trans person, 52 years old, in therapy for 24 year