charlie: this is another scene when michael sheen, lord baldwood is trying to convince her to marry himoffering you shelter. comfort for safe harbor. as my wife. you must at least admire my persistence. >> i do. >> and like me? >> yes. >> and respect me? >> yes. very much. >> which is it, like or respect? >> it is difficult for a woman to define her feelings in a language cheaply made by men to express theirs. charlie: then comes sergeanttroy. carey: who says those things but doesn't really mean them. he has left his poor pregnant almost wife somewhere else. charlie: and she is attracted to him? carey: yeah. charlie: but she is strong. carey: it's a great line in the book where she says she fell in love with troy only the way a self-reliant woman can fall in love when she loses her self-reliance. charlie: so she has no -- she cannot rely herself. it's just gone. hook line and sinker as they say. carey: until she wakes up and realizes. she has gotten to a point in those times, there is nothing to do but get married. charlie: you said you have to really live this because it will not be th