a activities she says wife and mother first but i don't know that i believe that the then michelle steinbersaysreading in and leave the office at five but what do you dowh when you get home? are you on the black perry? people put themselves out there then be a tax. >> then they have helped. >> now i will lock gun the eggshells. [laughter] she did say something that is not totally honest but you can tell she doesn't exa follow her own example. you cannot say as the ceo is more important to be a mother first. that is very hard too reconcile because in theory it is the most important job but if you are female surgeon but are you a mother first? no. you are a surgeon first we have t come to a point to is okay to keas sacrifices as long as the end justifies the mes. melissa: during the day she is the ceo first? >> est.hat >> that was my point moment to moment the priorities shift. also we are focused solely women.n. we don't talk about of mail ceo what is there workife balance?ba how are they dividing their day? >> they don't expect to have balance but without regeneration the man loves balance. but