what's your name. >> michelle. >> michelle theer was, no doubt about it, dissatisfied. was, young, successful, attractive, and yet it wasn't exactly boredom that was eating at michelle. after all, she was just startsing a new career as a psychologist, often counseling troubled couples. >> she was relatively new with her license. i think that was her first real job. >> of course, michelle would have laughed at the idea that pretty soon now events would propel her to such notoriety that newspaper reporters like melissa stoddard diaz would be poking around in her past. >> michelle, from everyone i have spoken to, wanted to be somebody and really worked hard to get to where she ultimately got her degree and became a professional. >> but then michelle, even at an early age, always seemed confident about getting what she wanted. she was just 16 when she started dating marty. marty theer was a couple of years older, worldly, bright, friendly. had big plans. he wanted to be an astronaut. he went to the air force academy. ♪♪ >> she was 20 when she married him at the academy's fa