mike narduzzi: there's a white female body in the back seat. police knocked on the door at 9:30 the next morning. i think i fell to my knees. hank winchester: and one of the neighbors said, well, i do notice men and women dressed in leather carrying whips. this is a guy with a secret life. woman 2: i had never, never heard of such things. mike narduzzi: it appeared to be a relationship based on mutual obsession. woman 2: there's no doubt in my mind that she knew what her husband was into. about his kinky taste? she knew. dennis murphy (voiceover): follow the twists and turns in one of the strangest stories we've ever had on "dateline." i first met him on an adult website. it was layer after layer after layer. marc santia: get ready, because now everything just started spinning. [no speech] urphy (voiceover): if you ever needed to be persuaded that bad things, grotesque things can happen anywhere, then take a journey with us to detroit in the wealthiest of suburbs. marc santia: it's sort of "the truman show." it's sort of "wandavision." it is th