>> no, not for a milli millisec. >> rose: no?but i was raised to have children and i'm glad for that and men -- >> rose: when you say not for a millisecond -- >> as a friend of mine once said, there is no more reason why everybody with a womb should have children -- >> rose: but -- wait a minute -- then why everybody with vocal chords should be an opera singer. it is a gift and we nurture in different ways. >> rose: i understand. and it's possible in my case, and i'm not sure, but it's possible that, in my case, that because my mother and i were reversed in our roles to a certain extent that i was looking after her as a young person, and sometimes i was the parent and she was the child, that maybe, you know, that that's why i feel like i did that. i have no idea, you know. i'm really not sure. i just know i'm happy. >> rose: one of the things they say is all of a sudden you realize it's not about you. you don't have to look at child bearing to feel way. >> especially not if you're a female because you're raised with self sacrific