and his mother missy hayes have had a troubled relationship since his latest arrest several months earlierhe jail. >> she volunteers here at the jail. tells her story and tries to lead inmates into the right direction. that's great. it's a crazy story. i know it can touch some people and help some people. >> i think he's proud of me for doing it. my concern was that i would have some of his cell mates in the program and i didn't want them to go back and harass him in any way, shape or form. but this is what i do. stop getting locked up and it won't be an issue. >> still awaiting trial on unrelated charges of leaving the scene of an accident in which his passenger was badly injured and criminal sexual conduct for his alleged involvement with an underage girl, ratliff has had problems both in and out of jail. he says everything went wrong three years earlier after his father went on a spree of violence. he murdered missy's mother, shot and wounded missy, and then took his own life. >> this right here is my mom and dad in florida. >> what do you think when you look at that picture of your par