>> that makes them moret ma because now they have to be seen. [laughter] it is a little bit of a violation to cross into the cubicle. i have an office so i am not susure. [laughter] melissa: there are thoseki people that are mild-mannered on the e-mailet they are really long winded but what does this mean? they say aggressive things the and what you do? would you really have said this to me? how do you deal with someone like that? >> they are technology tough guys. face to face with a persone that they have the issue they change their entireire demeanor. don't confront them but haven a nversation so let's talk about the issue that you brought up.ro >> huang e males are far worse. [laughter] >> just abbey in the front. [laughter]phs at six or eight paragraphs e-mail. >> but with technology the ip of van winkle those that don't adapt to current technology there are certain things and it is time to adapt. come on. melissa: is the key tt a happy marriage a shared bank account? a and the age-old question can women have an all? one former ceo says no.