like we do today, so it want like you go to madison, wisconsin and pick up the telephone and call morovia in those days and that made it very tough but, you know, thank god we were able to succeed in that and they came out very well. >> yes, they did and you talk about pride, that is one proud thing that liberians, you hope they hold on to or you say africans, but i think we would spread that out, because we saw it a lot in the caribbean, too, i know my mother made the same sacrifices with extended families, where a lot of parents would go away to try to do better for their children, but you don't want liberia to lose that sense of extend family. >> no, that's part of our cultural values, that we must maintain that reaching out to others and everyone is a part of the same village, the same community. everyone is your mother and everyone has responsibilities to take care of someone else's children and i think that is a good thing, and i hope we don't lose i we should try to maintain it. [applause]. >> sure. [applause]. >> exactly. exactly. so, eventually, your marriage with your husband en