mr. braverman. i get into it and start yelling at him and my dog had not beaten him and he pulls back his coat and reveals he has a gun in his waistband and my mom is like this is all we need so she tries to shut me up and i do not take the subtle hints or the accused. and she was not so subtle and finally she slams the door on him and two months later they moved. >> but your mother stood up for her beliefs and made sure that you did but it was unusual that she let you make your own mistakes and let you be in everybody's face to hear them now in the mistakes not to say what he does is fine but what is the right and wrong of the situation? you have to listen in school. you are all against authority from the beginning and bartok to question authority. even at home you have family meetings if there is something that is really on your mind these are techniques about the secret to a happy family is and i am thinking the eve manuals we're doing this in the '60s. that was advanced for that time. >> my youn