her teacher told me one time, mr. lacey, your daughter is amazing. there was a serious beef between some black kids on latino kids and i have this great picture of her where she is standing in the middle and that was her spirit. quite naturally, i feel like everything that has happened, it is due and loving nature. i grieve every time i hear the story of someone murdered. the violence and the viciousness of people. >> what was it like to lose your daughter at that time? >> the night it happened, october 20th, 1997, my initial reaction was for revenge. we didn't have cell phones. we had pagers. i was getting messages. people were informing me the night of that they had a good idea of the individuals involved. but the last person i talked to was my dear gramother who lived to be a couple months shy of 102 and she told me that what the devil meant for evil, god would turn to good. right at that moment, i thought about what my daughter taught me when she was grieving. so i put the word out that i didn't ntan >> >> the young man that picked her and her gi