mrs. carson of the moment traveled with another couple or two. they traveled sometimes with ed mcmahon and his wife. or henry bushkin, carson's long-time lawyer, known as the bombastic bushkin that launch add i thousand monologues. carson denied that he was aloof, he just said that he was shy. as ed mcmahon once put it, carson was just uncomfortable with people he did not know well, and he knew very few people all that well. as one frequent guest said of carson's shyness, johnny comes a alive when the camera comes on. why are we still talking about johnny carson and "the tonight show" decades after his final performance? i think part of it is that a lot of people look at his humor and think of carson as the golden age of comedy. you'll get no argument from me. before the internet, carson shaped the next day of conversation. it shaped television careers, the careers of comics for good or for ill. with today's fragmented audience, no one will ever match carson's reach. and those who look back on carson's time also note that he was a kind figure compared to many of the late night hosts wh